Свойства семейной системы

to Ensure the normal course of his family Affairs often nelegka than governing the province.

Publius Cornelius Tacitus

For some, family — is the purpose of life and its realization, for some, prison and imprisonment, for other — peace, love and the opportunity to develop together. So, why would the human family and how to create a comfortable field of happiness and freedom to do, think and speak differently?

let's Start with the definition of this mysterious phenomenon Family.

Family — is a small group of people who are emotionally dependent on each other and United by common ideas: the idea of homemaking and parenting.

Saying “smart" family — is the social system (the Basic idea of the theoretical part suggested by the book: Varga A. Y. Introduction to systemic family psychotherapy. – Moscow: “Kogito-Tsentr”, 2011). The word system means a number of consequences. When we say system, we mean that all parts, i.e., family members, and processes of the whole, i.e., the family influence each other. from this we conclude that the people that make up the family doing so or otherwise under the influence of the rules of their family system and not solely influenced by personal needs. the System is primary in relation to input in her element.

the Following result: change one element of the system inevitably affects the whole system. Hence the unavoidable fact: in the presence of difficulties in the life of one family member affects the whole family and recovery ­— all well.

the Next position. Family system — it is open system, it is in constant interchange with the surrounding space: all his relatives, friends and colleagues, culture and traditions, economic and political situation in the country. How cultural and temporal context affect the individual and the family as a whole? Representation of our contemporaries on the right, about sin and conscience inevitably direct our behavior and feeling. For example, in Western society the lives of the elderly in a nursing home is the norm for the countries of the East — is the fear of old people and shame children. In the American family children live at home until 18 years and then they determine their lives independently regardless of, the children are learning or working, or rather, American students, tend to work. In Russia, children often live with parents years at the University and can continue to live under the same roof my entire life, even creating a new family, while not abandoning support a parent.

in addition, there are certain laws of life family systems. This means that every family goes through stages of birth, development, decline, rise, crisis and death. no family has lived their entire life on one note without minor episodes and major events. No one was able all his life to hold on to the stage of love and enthusiasm. And how the family will live a period of crisis, depends on the maturity and patience of both partners in the midst of a marital relationship.

describe the General principles of family life.

the whole family goes through about 9 stages of its development, otherwise, in fact — 9 crises. in addition, there are six informative parameters of family life:

• peculiarities of relations of family members;
• public and secret rules of life in the family;
• family boundaries;
• stabilizers family system;
• history of the family;
• family role.

As you can see, the family system affects not only the individual psychology of each member of the family and its ancestral history, but also the laws of living systems. But because a lot of things that happen to us we can't control until you get acquainted with the basic processes of life and family.

This is the beginning of my book about love: "Why do some love and others live?"

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