- You slimmer better. Better slimmer you. Slimmer you look so pretty!" his mother said Lena.
Lena looked at myself in the mirror and does not see differences. Well, yeah, eyes bigger, face shape is different. But what means better? So attractive, cute. Mom admires. Daughter gets approval. Which means approval in that boys head? I am. Love me. And, what do you mean slimmer? This is a 46 size.
When Lena is not stolee, mom is silent. Admires and apparently does not like. Then Lena believed and acquired the installation - "I slimmer better!"
When Lena had gained a lot of weight, mom burst into tears and said, "You're too fat.... ". But Lena herself has realized this and took the course to weight loss to once again become more attractive, cute and beloved.
What will a person do, having in mind the installation: I a slimmer better or similar? Right! He will lose weight to the size in which it is better either to keep all the forces in this size. And it is an endless process. Life in the struggle, restrictions and deprivation.
Lena lost weight non - stop, because to keep long 46 size does not work. The body has always sought to 48-50, but she did not give up for all 9 years. Her goal was a size 46!
time Passed. Lena became a psychologist and a good hacker. She was able to crack the passwords, log into their system, to destroy the old program and install the new one. New setup sounds now so: I'm ATTRACTIVE AND LOVED AT ANY SIZE!
On the introduction of new programmes had to spend a little more time. But Lena did it! Decreasing the level of confidence in the old installation, she stubbornly repeated to yourself "I am lovable and loved at any size" several times during the day for several months. She believed and do so began to think: I am beautiful and loved at any size. And found a bunch of real evidence of this, just never noticed them devalued.
What are the bonuses received Lena:
- ceased to lose weight, aim for 46 size, to fight with my body;peace and more sustained good mood, took his own body in any razorscale was more confident, his privlekatelnosti to admire you and to take care of in any size. Quality of life with such bonuses has increased significantly, and the need for food decreased.
PS Lena's Mom is very wise woman. She almost stopped to break the boundaries of her daughter. Admires her. Says: “What a fine and beautiful.” Lena is nice, but not as important as before. Because it has already adult and all about himself. And the silence of the mother is no longer perceived as dislike. The reality of it is quite different.
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