Свобода и ответственность. Прогулки туда и обратно

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somewhere since the enlightenment, freedom and responsibility often go hand in hand. And then I like to remember my favorite albert Camus. The person responsible for freedom of their own choice. The choice is free, but imposes otvetstvennosti for its consequences, for which it was made. br>
From the series - what will you choose?

Someone chooses not to be. To exist for the other, forgetting himself. Exactly. Calling it a service, duty, responsibility. Thinking that through it is possible to realize the meaning. To give everything, asking nothing and not getting for yourself. The triangle of Karpman, co-dependency , and so on. etc.

And so all his life, not listening to the world around and to itself. Homeland for all, all for victory, for children, for work, for the beloved ( beloved). Day-to-day with the same faith in another, not in yourself. br>
Someone chooses to be for yourself. Calls it freedom. And, again, not listening or to the world around him, his own inner world. Suggests that the lives of others - that's their business, their responsibility. And to be yourself is the highest value and the only way. Not in interaction with others. Rather on your own .

we Can say that giperatidnosti and hypervolume links fucking chain. I'd like to see these links through the prism of attachment theory John Bowlby. Anxious resistant or anxious-avoidant. In any case, is unbalanced. Choice or no variability and halftones. Because to keep a false freedom or false responsibility safely. Not so anxious and hurt. Familiar. And here I like to remember the work of Erich Fromm. br>
it Turns out that you are or at one end of the scale or another. The ends of the grotesque understanding of freedom and responsibility. You can huddle them, to shrink to a point on the edge, and ignore all the breadth and exciting possibilities in between. After all, if you move away from the edge, the rears are not protected and are open to outside influence. Can happen the notorious " here and now", you can feel the ambiguity. Yourself, the world around them. You can feel the possibility of change, fluidity, instability. And to feel what it means to be alive. br>
try to start from zero values and to take a few steps towards the center of the scale. Where freedom and responsibility meet in its entirety, ambiguities and paradoxes. Where it is possible to make a choice. Constantly to make decisions, to feel, to respond with new ways of responding. br>
On a scale you can walk in different directions. A little slower or a little faster. When there are no forces to back up, or stay in place. In order to get some rest and look around. Maybe there will be more comfortable? Can be to spend some time on this length scale? To relax , gain strength, and move on, moving to the middle. br>
where on this scale are you? Where are you  sent?



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