If You decide that it's him and that she's THE same and you think You are ready to spend the rest of their lives together, agree about the ENGAGEMENT before applying to the Registrar.
"Play" in a spouse, spend as much time together, discuss and take decisions together, look each other in the home. Family responsibilities differ from before the marital relationship. At the stage of ENGAGEMENT can and should be completely up to doubt, to cast aside fears and concerns and then to formalize the relationship or moving in together. Why? To reduce the risk of divorce.
These steps are necessary to take at least 4 months and maximum 18 months. Those who "understand" that HE/SHE, in the first minutes of Dating, as well as those who are "found" more than 2 years, are doomed to separation. Of course, there are exceptions. But You want to risk your time and health for the sake of what You thought "a sound of thunder and a voice from heaven proclaimed You about HIM/HER"?
There are two ways. The path of experience and the path of knowledge. I prefer the second. You decide for yourself. In any case, I'm ready to help You to understand and "build" Your relationship.
Happiness to You. Your Lana.
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