Many believe that personal development is actively prevented: lazy lack of money childhood psychological trauma, lack of time, suitable method or advanced teacher. Of course, it's considerably slow, but the main obstacle is the Gate of Emptiness.
In this article we will look at what they are, learn how to achieve them, to recognize and successfully overcome.
we Emphasize that to the Gates of the Void to get only those who really is growing as a person, not marking time, hanging out, making out, etc.
to Mark time, to pretend it is:
- Read articles and books (first level), to criticize read in vain, without linings;
- carried away positive thinking creating the image "white and fluffy" Bunny-with-cover;
- to Save the failure in the body and memory as proof of their inaction, referring to the country, the crisis, parents and destroyed before your chapel.
In contrast, to grow personally, means:
- Apply read in my life (on the third level of knowledge), ask questions if necessary;
- to Work out problems and overcome obstacles, addressing to shrink;
- to Continue their actions based on previous experience, despite the difficulties, to find new ways not to stop.
Once through the Gates of the Void be proud of. Why? 99 out of 100 people who come in the Gates, it may seem that it was all in vain, they went astray, did not come back, captivated by illusions and chimeras, they became worse than it was before this strange personal growth.
In fact, reaching the Gates of the Void suggests that you really have moved, because all is not what it seems (remember the iceberg).
the Essence of the Gate of Emptiness is a special state when about goals, meanings, desires, fears, etc., disappear, the man falls as though in meaning and emotional vacuum. In fact, it is the death of the false "I".
followed by a manifestation of Self – the true essence of the person, but not immediately, but after some time. Just this period, many can not stand run away in the remnants of the old personality, at any price grounded – their favorite way.
Some overeat other drink, they go to empty the absorption of information, low quality TV, radio, social networks, go to shopping, gambling, etc.
To some extent, running in a circle about values – age phenomenon. First, we select the UNIVERSITY, the profession and the work – as it seems not for us, as parents, to society, to God knows who.
Then customize a figure under the standards imposed by anyone but us.
even more claws, clung to life in our forties, we begin to pull "the eye muscle on the ischial tuberosities" that the face was smooth and still, and no folds and wrinkles crept! Be sure to the lips and the fifth point "was high-high", lifted above the everyday, "lured", or "captivated" around you mere mortals.
And parallel themes: marry-marry and money is money. to lose weight!!!!!!
And there's nothing there. Is empty.
in fact, it is the road or the path through Death of the Ego. Quite a painful process. At this stage, often manifest "old sins that have long shadows", the former trauma and addiction, including elaborate, old habits, from which you refused (you think).
Subconscious "requires" again, to drink-to eat-nalopatsya, pull the person to buy a house (or new man) – everyone chooses to your liking.
How to reach the gates of the Void?
- Follow ascetic practices such as fasting, physically and spiritually, including information.
- to the event so significant that all else becomes not important, is being re-evaluated. For example, the death of a loved one or a loved animal.
- After the accomplishment of a cherished dream. For example, I wanted to buy a red Ferrari – acquired – but an empty one. Or, wanted to lose weight, dropped and here we go again – you want a new coat or a Bentley, or.....it does not matter....I want/do not want a new one.
How to understand that you are already at the gates, what are the symptoms?
- Apathy, lack of desires;
- the Disappearance of emotions – both positive and negative;
- the Feeling of futility of any action;
- lonesome accompanied by a kind of dissolution "I";
- the Almost complete lack of food and sexual hunger.
Algorithm successful completion of Gate:
- Observe and recognize these symptoms.
- Awaken your curiosity: what will happen if you continue to remain in this?
- the better you will be to this condition to treat and unless you make a conscious effort to end horse – the faster you pass the Gate of Emptiness. Approach the Gate with a better margin of strength, health, mood, they are needed.
- after some time will start interesting things and effects. Come out of the inner "demons" that are seemingly "gone" or "had worked out". With them it is advisable to go to a psychologist. After some time this is over, there will be special new feeling of freedom, freshness and life, and new desires, the thirst for an open heart.
this is an indication that you have passed the Gate.
If you've been at the Gates of Emptiness,, or even came close to him, you probably felt how important it will be to pass them. I'm ready to help you, not leading you by the hand and gently guiding and accompanying. Then it will be quickly, without unnecessary agony. If you are following the path of personal development – you can not escape the Gate of Emptiness. Not passing them, you will entertain the illusion of "I'll go the other way." So if you've fought about the Gates of Emptiness – stop wasting life in vain. Call now.
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