for a Long time already, each by his own experience understands, sees or feels that everyone vosprinimat the world in their own way. Scientists have proven that this vision depends on what structure of the brain of the person is dominant. In addition, these structures of the dominant, which can be divided into three main groups, interact with each other in a special way. This, of course, is reflected in the human, in his reactions to events and also ways of solving problems. Certain dominant can be in conflict with each other, but each of us can learn to use the strengths of their dominant physiological structures consciously. We can direct their activities effectively addressing the challenges before us, thus creating a perfect, solid and durable Union.
First let's look at the strengths and weaknesses of the Union men, whose dominant structures are the same. These people seemed to be looking at the world "from one window". They equally perceive the world, perceive events, easily find a common language. They without any difficulty coming to a common point of view in all spheres of life. However, it is undeniable the positive aspects of such communication and is accompanied by a significant drawback. Such partners not only the same strengths but also the weak. For example, imagine two partners with a pronounced dominance of the cerebral cortex. These people have some difficulties with communication. Any contact with the outside world severe, painful for each partner. Such a family will be very, closed, closed and, hence, even a simple trip to a PTA meeting in school or a visit to a Bank branch will become a disaster of epic proportions.
now, suppose that both partners, dominant is the activity of the medulla oblongata. What will be the Union of such people?
on the one hand, this is the perfect couple – both partners are loving, contact, crave both warmth and intimacy. Such people are tolerant of other people's shortcomings, compassionate, always ready to listen to the partner. But they lack the push, a "trigger pulse". Such a pair is required from the outside to set the pace, direction of travel ,otherwise the life of such a pair can easily turn into a "dreary vegetation". In addition, there is a danger of suppressing, not solving different conflict situations and problems.
Pair with the dominance structure of the middle brain in both partners – extremely explosive, impulsive company, although active, fast reaction to all occurring always valued partner positively. This pair is similar to a well-played, strong sports team. Both partners are extremely ambitious, and together they will easily penetrate any wall, take any fortress. But after winning another victory, they should be especially attentive to each other, because in such a Union is constantly an internal struggle. It was about this couple can say: two bears in one den. Typically, these spouses conceal competition in the family from others, but it can escalate to the limit situation inside their Union, resulting in constant jealousy, envy, intolerance to each other.
the Partners, which are dominated by the cerebral cortex backed by interesting and very fruitful dialogue. They both love words, calculations, love to solve complex puzzles of life, and it is accompanied by the seriousness, competence, dedication, high ideals. But such people often perceive the partner contact with the outside world almost as a "betrayal". In addition, a very serious attitude to certain beliefs and ideas can cause a potential dispute in the family.
so, we can conclude that for the "perfect partnership" is not only the unity and struggle of opposites. Small only one harmonious match, partners should complement each other.
In family Union the partnership can be benign if:
- Match up dominant. This will create a solid Foundation for understanding, and necessary for a happy Union, difference, complement in this case stem from the difference in the second in the severity of the components.
- Match up second in severity or minimally expressed components. Such a coincidence will provide the ground for unity partners, with different dominant complement each other.
- Diametrically opposed to the dominant structures spouses tend to generate significant problems in the Union. However, such partners are capable enough to productively complement each other. But such partners are extremely important to consciously, purposefully to develop a tolerance and resistance.
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