to Invest in other, investing is about making a profit. Profit any income, interest, bribes, which can be obtained from the Deposit, successfully manipulating at the expense of the resources invested and how they sound, we all know I raised you, I'm paid, I put my life, gave, power, love - and you???? To invest in other, it's about what I can't do myself, but at the expense of another, which will invest its resources, the extra or last, in order to get beyond what we have. Is it possible and true in a healthy relationship? No.
In a healthy relationship no one who does not invest in them the principle gave forgot gave out of abundance, or because like most want to share, divide equal, because the relationship is not me and him, the relationship we and our new total. We are invested in the relationship and if you both put your excess, share different resources, bring and protect from the invasion of them is black and the mud, sharing a normal life situation and empathizing with the feelings, no one enters the path of manipulation, where someone someone something invested, and therefore may require.
Interest in the life of another, again not for the contribution and support of its aspirations, desires and path of development in the business, their desires, are not contrary common. Ability to help and maintain a healthy, but not to the detriment of myself- "wearing my shoes, I'm barefoot, I'm strong and will survive". Because of a flawed dedication, there will always be charges of overspending. If you are already together and you're equal, then buy the shoes cheaper, but both.
In "deposits" and "investments" in the other, the thing is very slippery, invest in yourself, grow yourself to their resources, engage in relations when at least they can provide financially and emotionally. Their investments always bring a good profit, and consciously grow ourselves and strengthen ourselves, it is to be ready for a relationship, not the consumerism and demand for investments. Then have something to share and not to share "some shoes" for two, counting losses due to risks.
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