- Where you're going, cow?!
- look At yourself, asshole!!!
how Often have you had to hear such dialogues? Traffic jams, crowds in public transport, garbage in the entrance, slammed, naughty children, uncomprehending spouse... the Modern world is nerves and haste, anger and despair. People can't keep up... and inevitably come into conflict. But conflicts rarely bring soul peace and rest. After them it gets even worse. And so from day to day. The result - a miserable, harassed people with a thick medical card (hypertension, heart attack, stroke, ulcers, asthma, etc.).
moreover, often conflicts are hidden, veiled. Under the mask of kindness and understanding, people can hide envy and hatred. Man, you trusted and believed, if not friend, then at least well-wisher, suddenly commits despicable and treacherous act towards you.
it's hard To believe, but there is a solution. In fact, you can save the health, dignity, confidence and calm in our crazy world. Conflict, of course can not escape - we do not live on a desert island. But you can learn how to resolve them elegantly and even fun. Moreover, you can rotate everything so that the striker will be on your side.
PS (I would if I was a master of the psychological Aikido):
- Where you're going, cow?!
- In the pasture...
Present to your attention a video recording of the webinar "Psychological Aikido", which was held on 23 October 2012.
Discusses the nature of conflict, its possible outcomes and relationship to conflict situations and their role in them, preparing for the conflict and the first steps on the path to effective conflict resolution.
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