Q: Today I dreamed that I was drowning...
Paul: In your voice I hear that the dream has caused you a lot of feelings...
Question: Yes, he's scared... And then I went out into the yard and saw a black cat...
Paul: For you is an important sign...
Question: I don't know... like I've never been superstitious, but when I saw her, I had some uneasy feeling.... And then, at work, when I arrived, my colleague was watching the news and there was a terrible movie about the accident...
Paul: All this means to you...
Question: Yes, it's all connected somehow. Like I'm waiting for some kind of disaster. Wait and afraid at the same time...
Paul: Waiting for the disaster... what does that mean in your life?
Question: what!? I don't know. About sickness, about death.... Oh my God! (loud sighs and covers his face) my husband is at work now very difficult situation, he spoke about the possibility of moving....
Paul: How do you feel about that?
Q: I am terribly afraid to move... (sighs with relief). It turns out that I am very afraid to move...
Quite often I hear from people about the "signs" that they "receive" from the world. "I saw a black cat", "spotted a figure 13", "on TV all the time twist films about murder", "a bad dream" - all this rich broth of superstitions, fears, symbols, dream books and horoscopes in which people are forced to cook, seeking your own path to joy, peace and wealth.
the World is huge, and events often beyond our own, still such a young consciousness. In this case, we, like our ancestors millions of years ago, looking around yourself for someone stronger and more powerful than ourselves: God, the Universe, the Great intelligence. "The universe sends me..." says the man, revealing their need for a strong protector, a helper, a kind of parent who will come and everything will clarify, explain, soothe, say what to do. Often this role people placed on psychologist, psychotherapist, mystic, psychic, shaman, psychic. This is a manifestation of the ancient tradition is to place a source of great strength outside of themselves. And it's sad, because this separation is distance, a distance – sometimes quite large – between "I" and "World". And in this period, as no man's land to settle, like a Horde of weeds: distrust, fear, anxiety, superstition and a strange, sometimes wild rituals.
the more a person shares themselves with the World, the more his mistrust.
"Peace," "God" "universe" - all this, of course, exist (as a whole), it is enough to look out the window or in the mirror, you'll see it. Great power there, but not somewhere "out there" but right here and now within you, where the conscious "I" becomes invisible in the collective unconscious. Yes, it is impossible to say with evidence and actual science, but when Aeronautics was talking about how the invention of a madman. The unconscious is studied as a phenomenon for many decades and the experience of many people (and my own) shows considerable successes in my life a person who chooses consciously to make contact with this part of yourself. A person can get a lot of answers to improve many areas of life, when given access to his inner world, beginning to realize and recognize phenomena occurring in it.
In Gestalt psychology used the concept of field. Everything that surrounds us and everything that happens inside this field. The street where we go, a relationship in which right now involves, thoughts and images in your head – all is the field in which consciousness selects individual figures: "the black cat", "sleep", "movie", "haunting melody" a", "the slogan on the Billboard or on someone's t-shirt". And these figures are a kind of encrypted message from our subconscious, because his main language is symbolic.
it is Important to understand that characters always are of a personal nature, that is designed for the person who sees them. So when she asked to look in the mirror again and returned something forgotten at home child is not "about the children" and of course "Mama". We can assume that it is "about her" anxiety, defence and the discharge from which, she is looking for with the help of the ritual, not wanting to see the actual source of anxiety, which according to the results of the decryption may not have any relation to child safety.
Thus, it is important to realize that the world around us is the screen, which turns a projection of what is happening inside us process. There is no obsessive need to read all the signs. You should be attentive to what makes us distinct feelings and experiences. Note, however, that "character" refers to something that happens in you and what you are, for whatever reason, forced out of consciousness. Thus, the symbol draws attention to the complexity or problem that you could understand the level of consciousness, translated from the category of "vague threats" (such as "black cat") into the category of understandable and quite natural phenomenon (such as "fear of moving"). And then with that you can already "work" at the level of consciousness: after all, how to make moving more convenient for yourself or to expand your selection and add to that the option "don't move and stay here" - this is not such a big problem.
Trust yourself and move toward your Inner teacher. And work with a psychologist/therapist think of as coming to his "I" as the process of developing mindfulness, not as a contact with the "great guru" in the form of a specialist.
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