Napoleon hill in his book "Think and grow rich" writes that belief in success is the basis of success. br>
He tells the story of his son who was born without ears. The doctor said the child has no hearing aid, and he will remain deaf. However Outdoor hill did not want to give up. He used in raising his son the principle of achieving wealth and success. He believed. He told him stories about success. One day he and his wife found that the baby can hear, if you touch his head through bone conduction. They tried again and again to find a suitable hearing aid. When the boy grew up, received an offer to test a brand new model. And he started to hear!
In the end, the young man received an offer from the company that manufactures hearing AIDS. He became a successful representative and a successful businessman. He could understand the deaf people and help them!
why?
If the parents are scared and overly worried about their child, they give him to understand: "You fail", because if the parents BELIEVED the child, they would not have worried about it, right?
I believe children who come to me for consultations, classes, kindergarten and after school program. I think this is a crucial factor in our success. Children are no longer afraid, be more confident, better start to learn, be successful in the team.
Anxious children primarily from disturbing mom. Mom is afraid that whatever happened to the child. This fear is understandable, because the child has a mother supervalue. But it is this fear that prevents the child to grow up. Mom leaves no space for growth, surrounding the child with sverhsrochnoy.
How to gain faith in the child? How are we to believe that he is able to cope with the challenges that life has prepared for him.
using your logic.
1. Nobody knows what will happen in the future.
2. If we assume that will be all that bad, you start to fear
3. You constantly monitor the child, the child sees the mother is afraid, the child concludes that the world is unsafe. The child also begins to fear and to hide the mother under the skirt
4. Since no one knows what will happen in the future, the probability of good and bad are equal
5. But if you believe in good, then the child sees the mother believes that I can do this; the child concludes: my mother knows I can handle it. A child full of energy and confidence. In a position to cope much easier than fearing and worrying.
6. Conclusion: to believe in the good more profitable and more logical!
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