12 scenarios that tend to attract into your life relationships, money and everything you want.
Your unconscious installation is about how NOT to be loved, happy and successful.
are you Familiar with situations such as:
- it turns out not successfully, and generally to marry;
- Divorced 15 years ago, and still can not organize their lives, one and one;
- To do, and live on a tiny salary;
- I would Like your business but I'm afraid to do anything, and suddenly speak and be left with nothing;
- alcoholic Husband/has/is lying on the sofa and not earning and I'm carrying all by yourself;
- How to survive a divorce, who will I need with the kids?
- In my youth there were so many dreams and wishes. And here is a big part of my life has passed and I'm still on the sidelines. And the end-edge is not visible...
- etc.
I often see beautiful, smart, wonderful women fold their hands and suddenly decide that a harmonious relationship men - not for them. br>
“Ah! If only they knew!” I think at this moment! br>
if only they Knew that all the fault of ... of ineffective scripts. br>
“how so?” - surprised you. br>
And that's it! br>
for Example, said a girl in childhood, "Here's Mary from the 4th floor it already knows how to do, and you still can't learn"...
Or: "Here I am at your age..."
Or: "you're my ugly, no one's marriage does not take, with your wonky legs"...
Or: "Such a bad girl nobody wants".... br>
And grows up this girl becomes a lady. And she has a problem. br>
select the “wrong men” because deep down, feel themselves not attractive enough and good for a decent.
And after 35 and generally puts on a cross. br>
Or starts the girl when she starts to realize and taste its feminine appeal, and said to her:
“You're too small to cosmetics to use!” or “What is in front of the mirror revolve as an adult? More small!”
the girl locks up her feminine charms forever. Grows and I'm sure can't be sexy, attractive and desirable. br>
decides that men don't like it. And I do not like. br>
That's how you live and you don't even know what you have inefficient scripts that you put spokes in the wheel on the way to a happy marriage. br>
And you, like the Princess, asleep for a century, awaiting a Prince who will come and Wake you up. And then you heal.... But the princes do not come, if they correctly call.... br>
Want to know what scripts are? How they affect your relationships with men?
often come To me with such client issues. I am the practice since 2008. And over the years I realized that underlies such problems.
This:
- self-Confidence, which allows you to claim for different benefits;
- self-Esteem: or adequate, or slightly inflated, allowing you to attract these benefits;
- self-Love which allows you to put yourself first and listen to their wishlist and desires.
These 3 qualities are a sense of worthiness to receive different benefits from life. That is, possessing such qualities will allow herself to want to.
Or these qualities reinforce various negative attitudes, for example: "I was Not rich, nothing to start...."
About the units, they are also subliminal programs, I say a lot to each of my books, because today is not about them. And that gives rise to these units.
What we have inside, and outside. That is, at catcher and the beast running. What's the meaning of that? For example, you know that money has always come in under target?
If you want something, you will always find the material means to pay desire. The main thing is to see the chance and not miss it.
But even this is not important. The problem people have is that they can't even afford to want. Did you grow up, do not make big plans, so as not to be disappointed later?
keep your head down, and so will descend. Etc.
How would you feel if you don't allow yourself to want, then how to get what you want? That will come to you, if you forbid yourself to want?
And that's where it all is? Where did this script to your life?
The first teachers of life on Earth for a child are its mother and father.
From the earliest days of life, we are their behavior and their attitude towards the child begin to lay the basic laws on which to build his communication with the outside world.
These laws are the basis of life scenario and the roles that the child will play in their lives. In childhood, we subconsciously perceive parents as "higher authority," which shows us how to survive in this world.
Whom should we obey and which we should obey. Another thing – we carry these instructions or not. Immediately or delay time.
Even if we do not obey our parents, in our subconscious, to keep all their promises (especially expressed in the affirmative form).
always Sown germinates. And if these units are repeated more than once, wait for the "seedlings" in your adult life.
Well, if parents give a positive setting, and if negative...?
they complicate our lives. But parents are not to blame! They wanted the best for us.
Just told us the programs under which they lived themselves. For others they just didn't know because I got them from their parents. Etc.
Many of you probably have heard something similar, even if not in the address, then to the other like this: ·
"Goryushko you mine"
"I wish I'd never saw you."
"Not a child, and some punishment!..."
"Nothing to discuss, do what you're told!"
"What are you stupid!"
"Well, when you finally grow up!"
"You what?"·
etc., etc.....
Remember that from these words you often heard in his childhood:
– I'm ashamed of you!
– do You have...
– I Have you a headache!
– I gave you!
– I'm with you all my life put(a)!
– When you were(a) little (a little), I didn't sleep(and)!
For you with your father (your mother) live, not divorce.
– If you hadn't, I would have already...
– So like you mother (father) are...
– And where you get that from.
nothing good will not work.
– What to expect from you?
– With this character will be a lifetime to suffer.
– I told you(a)...
– You disappointed us.
– I don't like You.
– you have no Conscience.
What will our friends say when they find out that you...
As I now, people's eyes will look?
– I wish I was dead(La)!
– I will love you until you...
– If you loved (respected, sorry) me, you would not have received!
– Okay, I'm sorry, at least you have pity on others!
– I(a) know what you need.
– when I was your age...
what of these words you often say:
I'm unlucky.
Is all of them.
– If not... I would...
– And maybe I'm wrong?
– it was all right, and then...
– why did this happen?
– but...
– What would I never want to see(a)... (never heard(a)...).
– You're killing me...
– What do you want from me?
– Why did I again...
– I Have such a character.
– With me always...
– I Have no choice.
I can't count on the best.
– You always...
– You never...
– You don't pay attention to me.
– I'm indifferent (indifferent).
– I'm tired(a) to remind...
How many times have you promised me(a)...
– I'm not the person to ask...
how Long have you me make fun of you?
– if I knew(a) what (what) you never had I...
– As I'm tired.
– I know what you say.
– What did I do(a)?
– Sam(a) guess could(La) would be!
I feel sick.
I can't, because...
– If I had, like...
I'm not worried.
– nothing depends on me.
– Life has passed and now it is useless.
– I'm so lonely(a)!
you should not...
– Tell me what to do?
– Yes.
– I'm used to(La) to live.
– don't pay any attention to me.
– don't mention it.
Remember how the emotional power of the sound of these parental rules. br>
So parents with their directives write a script of life to your child. The script depends on the position taken in childhood, and is lived by the child in the development process.
After all, fulfilling the Directive, it feels good. as a result, each of the parent Directive is negatively affecting a certain stage of personal development.
In transaction analysis identified the following twelve types of directives (instructions):
1) do Not live (don't be);
2) don't be a baby;
3) do Not grow;
4) don't think;
5) do Not feel;
6) Not achieve success;
7) don't be a leader;
8) you don't belong;
9) don't be friends;
10) do Not do;
11) don't be yourself;
12) don't feel good. br>
Want to know what scripts are? How they affect your relationships with men with money? Why you can not find their place in life?br>
Then you need:
1. To join the group https://vk.com/irinairisvk
2. Subscribe to the mailing list here: https://vk.com/app5728966_-63407318#105854 just by clicking on the button "Subscribe". br>
the First scenario of the 12 will come to you immediately in a private message! br>
the Other scripts you will receive back from me within 12 days, one every day! br>
!
