UAZ-452 ("loaf") lies in a ditch, on the starboard side. I pressed against the right door, and I'm five years old. I had to take the commander and soldier-driven, unconscious from the blow. The left door is jammed, the commander holds the weight of the fighter on top and tries to crush me down. The rest of the men jumped out of "loaf" through the back door and are now trying to put it vertically. The commander right from the cabin, in some unimaginable position helps soldiers, commanding: "one-two-heave!" And again. And again. I whisper after him, "Once or twice, take it!". And again. Bang - the machine goes vertical, we've all swung to the left, on me nobody presses, commander shakes the driver that pulled out of the cab, moved to the salon. The captain asked me - how are You? - Normally - say. He nods, sits behind the wheel, and we keep moving. We're going from Baikalsk in Solzan in a local club, where the fighters promised to give their view about the New Year. We got soldiers made, and we returned safely back. This is my childhood memory. Not imposed photos, videos, stories close. It is pure and genuine. There are key things: movement - a serious problem - overcoming - victory.
according to Kevin Leman, childhood memories tell us about how we react to the world and its challenges [Lehman K. childhood Memories: what are they talking about you today. M., 2017]. What we remember above all, is our main means of action or "lifestyle", according to Lehman. At least in my case it is. Lehman identifies several of such styles, which include: the leader, the conductor, the pleaser, the victim, the giver, the consumer, artist, observer, participant. Each of these styles - your childhood memories of playing in the behavior of the adult. Lehman also claims that the style of life, and therefore childhood memories may be determined by the order of our birth, that is, what we children the first or only one, the only, the middle, or the youngest. In short, the order of our birth affects our way of life, and together they determine the features of our interaction with the world. It all becomes quite obvious in the first memory that we can call. For the first or only child, according to Lehman, harakterny quite detailed memories associated with the violation of the rules, errors, injuries, presence of spatial perception and movement. Themes an only child: memories of the achievements, no other persons fears. Middle child: comparison with other, injustice, joy, life events, entertainment, celebrations. Youngest child: the tendency to communicate and receive pleasure from life.
Lehman says: "before you began to think, what you want to become and who you want to be a small part of your soul already knew about it. The identity in which you had to turn, was depicted in images, paintings, stories and feelings deposited in your memory". That is, our childhood memory unerringly points us to the lifestyle we have chosen. In the words of cognitive behavioral therapy - on the nature of cognitions and schemas formed in early childhood, and the defining features of our way of life today. A careful look at the past is a prerequisite for understanding a look at the present, and serious Outlook for the future. So we are organized.
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