~ To continue the conversation about VCL (highly sensitive people)~
Imagine that you have dramatically decreased, and all the signals of the outside world suddenly increased dramatically: all the sounds became louder, the light and the colors are brighter, smells stronger all at the same time works on you. Imagine how you will feel in such a world?
Imagine that all around a lot of people and they all look like they are not worried about too loud sound of the siren of a parked car, the sound of passing cars, they don't pay attention to the fact that he talked too loud, and, in General, it is normal in this whole cacophony of sounds.
About the way you feel people with high sensitivity in our world. On the one hand too many stimuli acting simultaneously is too bright and intense his own feelings, on the other - the feeling that with you something is wrong, other times quietly exist in all of this.
not surprisingly, the level of stress faced by WCL much more. Features of the psyche does not make it easy to dismiss their experiences and feelings. What other "nonsense" and a "slight misunderstanding", for WCL - stress and sometimes psychological trauma. The need to "digest" all the information that is supplied constantly from outside and inside, also leads to the fact that VCL get tired faster and they often need solitude and silence.
So VCHL often worried about the sensitivity.
Here are some signs that you are highly sensitive people:
✔feelings deeper than other people, emotional responses are brighter
✔good intuition, ability to feel the situation, attention to detail, the nuances, the little things,
✔the love of solitude, loneliness,
✔difficulty in making decisions,so I see all the nuances and possible consequences
✔attention to the feelings and emotions of other people catch the slightest change in mood, easy to catch a lie, striking emotional reactions, close to tears, soul-searching in case of failure
✔creative abilities, the ability to offer innovative ideas and outputs from complex tasks
✔sensitivity to external stimuli, and, in consequence, fatigue and sometimes irritability
✔do not tolerate cruelty, rudeness, violence against people and animals, often love of nature,
✔the tendency towards deeper interpersonal contacts.
High sensitivity is found not only in humans but also in animals. Met example about the horses that run the herd. They have supersensitive individuals run ahead of their ability to detect danger and other signals from the outside world above.
Hypersensitivity - the ability to analyse information, the ability to see the whole picture, to catch the General atmosphere of a space.
Thus, high sensitivity is not a deviation, and some of the features that this world need to solve some tasks. Near the authorities can always be found among the advisors of those who has good intuition and high sensitivity.
VCL also distinguished by the creativity, depth of thinking and care for others, attentiveness to the slightest changes. This makes them indispensable in solving different kind of problems.
What makes us human? Warmth, kindness, empathy, compassion. But the world is not always soft and welcoming, so patient, containment, coldness more and more encouraged by society. People lose contact with their softness, sensitivity and learn to live with a closed heart.
In the case of hypersensitivity to close and lock their feelings on the lock will fail. Either way, the world will give signs and give signals that something is wrong. And until we recognize that it is a gift, not a disadvantage, to live in harmony with themselves even.
VCL can't stand that quietly endure most people. This is about excessive stimuli and signals from the outside world, and feelings. They can't stand violence, pain, injustice.
However, with respect to itself and its features, WCL can find and occupy a niche in society where they will feel comfortable.
That's not all. The subject is very extensive and you can write endlessly.
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