Today I will write about a personal story. It happened in 2015. I lost the baby...welcome, welcome. Personally, I didn't see the point in your existence( life I is not considered).
the World collapsed. There was life BEFORE and After. I remember all the events by the minute, I feel cold hospital rooms and cold hospital workers. I was another body. No one asked the simple human "You?"
I've changed. Became nervous, irritable, exploding over nothing. An emptiness in the soul, pain and disappointment. How to live do not know, and most importantly, why?
Around kept saying "it's okay, it happens", but now you can as before to travel, to relax, to live for yourself, build a career, get a hobby and a lot of advantages.
I don't have someone to talk to. All the emotions and feelings left deep in my soul. And I went through them methodically, engaged in soul-searching, finding the perpetrators, and sank into depression.
it took 2 years for the accommodation of the incident, not one consultation with a psychologist. Now I can openly talk about his loss, and now this is my experience.
What to do to a woman lost a baby?
- first 48 hours after of a miscarriage when You are left alone after medical procedures, begin to call my husband, mom, sister, friend and talk to them, share experiences. It is important for you to talk, not to hide the pain deep in the psyche.
- About time. How much you give yourself to recovery and living this experience?(the month, two months, six months, a year). It is important to remember, and to endure-to stomach-let through and after release. Time on the mountain.
- Read books. They will help you to find the answers
"Look at him" Anna Starobinets
"Tales of reversible death" Simone Mazliah-Hanoch
In conclusion, I can say that the meaning of life in life itself. Children, only one of its facets.
the Meaning of life - life, water-borne or not does not matter, the main thing to get high and enjoy life being a man, and woman of course)
If you experience the loss of a child, abortion for You is very difficult and no one to share the pain, it took a long time and You do not easier, seek help from a psychologist.
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