Now I work with several clients, men and women who are in a state of divorce. Mark this as a phenomenal fact. Before he turned to me with other queries, just the opposite. How to find a partner to improve relations with the available. To coerce him to marry or have children.
Now I treat people who leave an unsatisfactory partnership. Or on the contrary those who are left and removed. Of course, working with the “I'm leaving” is different from the one that “leave me”. br>
But it hurts anyway, as a divorcing party, and divorce. I share with applying the pain, do not legalize it away and sympathize. br>
According to the results of social studies, the intensity of emotional experiences during the day like a mountain in the dead. Because it is an irreparable loss! br>
Because we are attached to those we love or loved, our personality is woven out of relationships with them. Biochemistry physically occupied by human valences. At break we have to build and fill themselves up to a whole again.
in Parallel, one of the emphases of this work is to focus the grieving man to himself. Because it is the main relationship in any age and status, the long and close relations with himself. br>
think to myself, what happened to me in recent years? We know also that the therapist can teach only what he knows. I seem to have learned to complete valuable for me relationship. Not to escape, not hide, not to tear a living or mortally offended, not to expect the impossible. br>
But grateful to acknowledge the value of time spent together, and make the impossibility to continue. Of course, it hurts when you have to leave. The pain burns where was where life was. br>
Before, I was surprised coworker who pointed out in the list of those with whom they work “accompany divorces.” And thinking about what is it and how is it possible? And now she was escorted. Please.
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