"Find a place for the soul and you'll never have to work a single day in the life" - the authorship of this quote is assigned to Confucius, and in recent years we have seen the pursuit of finding "the perfect job".
to Be a salaried employee, in other words "working for the man" becomes unpopular. Gaining popularity of freelancing, working for yourself, starting your own business. With this hype associated is gaining momentum infobiznes – providing courses and training sessions on any topic and taste.
Social networks are full of advertisements about the courses that will allow you to quickly learn remote career and earn lying on a sun lounger on the beach, sipping a cocktail. In this article we will not dismantle the capacity and usefulness of these courses, and especially network marketing which is also called for leaving the boring office and "develop your business".
Successful freelancers can tell you how difficult it is to work from home, or from anywhere else, as in the first months they were faced with the problem of attracting customers as it was difficult to meet deadlines and discipline yourself. And what were their thoughts about what they again did not take the "his" thing, not the favorite.
what's the catch of this dream is to work in a fun? Why do we see many ways to achieve it, but the dream is not realized?
In my opinion the inability to attain work in a fun lies in the title. Let's look at these concepts.
Work is our work in which we are rewarded. The most important thing is the result. Implementation of the plan, refurbished crane, case solved, done deal, clean room, edited the article. For the result of us paid for.
Fun is what we pay we the most important is the process: watching movie, playing monopoly, riding the rides, walk to the new town. The result and conclusion of the unimportant, on the contrary they wanted to take.
Try to combine these concepts is impossible, because the work requires the complete and necessary result, and the pleasure focuses on the process.
Example:
an Amateur poker game it can make your hobby a profession, but to earn the only goal is victory over opponents enjoyment of the game goes by the wayside.
- girl who likes to sew, can make a living sewing, but for earnings it is important to hear the customer and perform the work so that he was pleased. Her inspiration and creativity are losing importance when the time is.
it is Important to realize this distinction between your self-expression and making money.
Remember the famous artists from different epochs: some of them painted pictures to order and were successful, others lived in poverty, but he expresses himself in paintings. There were those who divided his work, some paintings were written to please the customer and the other for his pleasure.
I would rename utopian "fun" "a job that brings satisfaction". With this formulation we recognize that the work can be routine and will have to compromise (with the authorities, customer, client), but the result is revenue. The process may not always be fun, but generally like. Together we can feel satisfaction with your work.
we will not be able to avoid moments when you need to bring yourself to discipline. Here we need our personality Parents, strict, knows the word "necessary", able to abandon short-term profit for the sake of strategic goals. And pleasure and for the pleasure we need our personality of the Child (Creator) – who can be in the moment, sincerely rejoice and be glad, who is not burdened with thinking about the future so you may relax and create.
these Two subpersonalities can't be enabled at the same time. Therefore, it is important not to confuse these concepts and find a balance and to pay each of them the time.
Freed from the illusion that the work can only bring pleasure, there is a chance to find work for everyone and not to sacrifice nor work nor income. For some people the outlet to separate work and Hobbies, and someone will be able to find a compromise.
If you notice yourself a greater impact subpersonalities Parent – you find it difficult to relax, relax, you forgot when was the last time they sang, danced and laughed, are focused only on achieving goals that do not bring joy – refer to a specialist, a psychologist.
If you are more prone to the condition of the Child, you find it difficult to concentrate, to bring a case to the end, you can't compromise and seek win-win solutions – refer to the psychologist.
a Specialist will help you find a balance of your personality, so you can easily switch and your life was full and joyful.
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