Sometimes people come to me clients saying," I have to adapt to.. I can't make her own decisions, and I ask how..."
Often people can't make decisions, suffer from the fact that they have to adjust to others, to follow their advice, ignore their desires, trying to do what's best for others but not for them. It's like they are trying to please others, not myself. They agree on someone else's brushstrokes in his painting life, not realizing that it would be a very different product.
Sometimes these clients I give one very interesting job, which she upgraded from the well-known techniques.
For what it is. The next time the client comes for consultation, we look at these two drawings. They very clearly show many things, but one direct asks at once!
I ask: "do You like your picture? How do you feel, what you feel looking at it?" And then I ask the second question, which puts everything in its place: "do You like your second picture? You are satisfied that it depicts something quite different from what you dreamed? How do you feel when someone else was leaving brush strokes on YOUR painting life? "
At this moment, usually there are important insights! The client understands that he is the author of my life, but it depends on who and what to be drawn on his sheet, but he decides, no one else! He sees what happens to his picture, if he is afraid, silent, obeys, how it is changing without his consent. What kind of future he gets to the exit. And most importantly, do it to him?.. His picture of life, not writing them..
This task makes to think deeply. To see and feel what happens when we are silent and agree..
Be the authors of their lives! Only you will be able to choose the best paint for your painting!)
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