Good day, Friends!
it is Very important before beginning of the topic to identify the meaning of the word Luck. This is a significant impact on its manifestation in your life. Convinced that each has it own and unique. About my personal definition of Luck, I spoke at length in his book, "Managing Life", which you can download for free on my website (http://darimir.org/).
So, today we will talk about one of the parties good luck, and that is the time when you begin the bad luck, when fortune turns away and comes to the conclusion that in some areas of life, he started to have "bad luck".
Through research it is found out that bad luck is often conceived when we miss the moment of victory, achievement, realization. Ie we do not notice this point, or confirm that it has reached the desired. The reasons are many – we were taught in childhood that victory is when there is a great achievement or a huge result. This is when the "5+" and not otherwise. Evaluation of "3" is simply unacceptable. Although the rating "3" is SATISFACTORY! This is the result!
And how many wishes (read: goals), we throw in the space briefly, unconsciously, and, of course, not to note their implementation as the implementation of the plan. We skip these achievements, small and not small victories, leaving them unofficial.
Why is it important to confirm success? What's the catch?
In fact, for the unconscious does not exist scale of achievements, it's obvious to him that the goal of desire is achieved. But our consciousness is not noted the fact that the implementation and continues to want the same. I.e. twice trying to enter the water. But it is impossible to enter the water, if I already are in it. You need to realize that I'm in it – then go out and, please, then I will be able to log in again.
One day, I came for a consultation a young guy, 20 years, and said that he never had a girlfriend. He was asked to reminisce the moments when he tried someone to "hook up". Naturally, when a man is trying to "hook up" with the girl's moment of victory would be her acceptance – "Okay, I'll come." The guy remembered episode of his life: when he was 16, he tried the first time to arouse the interest of girls. He talked to her as her potential boyfriend, and he happened to attract her attention, interest and sympathy. But he had not realized this, and confirmed the result, and did not set other intentions – a date, relationship, joint pastime. I.e. in his understanding "to" assumed it all together. But to pick up – get this – "Yes, I will come", and just. It does not imply in itself any consequences. And later in life, trying to get a date, he acted in his past, the old intention is "the first time meet girls". Because it was important to him in that period, he unconsciously tried all the time to achieve the same result, because I did not feel the progress – not perfection.
On the face of the attempt to again and again on an old desired intention. But the goal could not be achieved twice. It should always be a NEW goal.
And if you do not confirm the implementation of goals, i.e. some victory in this area is very high reduce the likelihood of success and the beginning of a series of "failures", or what we call a streak.
There is a way to stop this streak. Usually, when a person wins, he has a state of ecstasy. But if you have held a moment of achievement, victory, Yes victory, is worthy of admiration, and you didn't see him and passed on, and a black stripe overwhelms you (and sometimes it may take years), then you need to note is to remember a clear moment when this victory occurred. When you have achieved what you wanted. And to feel what you felt before – the feeling of inspiration, the real admiration!!! Ie, make it consciously. Thus, we affirm the victory, the achievement of the goal – "now the goal is reached!". Speaking of metaphorical language, we entered the water and realized we were in the water. Wanted to go in and "behold, I am in the water!!!". Delight is a kind of confirmation that this victory was received.
the boy, whose example has been described above, the unexpected event occurred. As you remember the last 4 years he was carrying, and he had already decided that the loser in this life. But that same night the woman he tried in vain to get a date with, and which he always refused, she called and suggested we meet!!! Unbelievable, but true.
So to confirm victory, achievement, success is not only important, but necessary!
But a considerable number of people the problem is that they do not want to realize this point and verify the success of a sense of delight. Because they know that they have this moment discouraged, there comes a lazy, lose interest to move on. The athletes feel it is full of lead muscles, lethargy, stiffness of movement. To repeat or even do something that is trained, no strength. Sensing this, people aspire not admiring, "to go" even further, do even more until there is a fuse.
However, few such actions, we lose OVERALL interest in the topic, there is apathy and to begin or continue something in this area it is difficult. And starts a series of misfortunes, failures, unsatisfactory events, or, most often, is stagnation in business.
One marathoner told the true story. In one race he about eyes determined on the ground, where it will finish, and went well on the course, arriving first to this place. However, it turned out that this is not the finish line and after the turn there is still a considerable chunk of the race. At this point, his stories, his legs leaden, the body is weakened, tired. He was overtaken by several participants, and he finished not with the best result.
What happened? His subconscious got a clear signal. And it was allocated internal resources and so on. And when he reached the "finish line", the body was given the signal reaching it is, of course, weakened. And he was not capable or trained to switch quickly and to set a new target. But this would not have happened if the confirmation made in the form of enthusiasm or admiration, would be the place to be, and would immediately set a new goal – "to Run this new land!".
to Confirm the win and set new goals. To confirm the win and set new goals. Here is the algorithm, which breaks a streak of failures and setbacks.
For parties Main course ICAN I had developed a system of confirmation of victories, allowing just 5 minutes to raise the energy and charge for a whole day and feel like after a good restorative break, until the feeling of excitement children in front of attractive the creative imagination. And easy 2 minute algorithm that aligns the instability of luck and attract luck in the important area of life.
In the following articles we will discuss another important side of fortune peak condition. Why do you have to feel them and what happens if we miss the time of peak condition.
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