to be able to SPEAK IS an ART!
About our rich and poor at the same time the native language. We all own you, but talking is not able. Alas.
You ask why?
Elementary observation can clarify a lot. Here are two different examples in poems.
First:
About how many wonderful discoveries
Prepare the spirit of enlightenment
And experience the son of errors difficult,
And the genius, paradoxes the friend,
And a case, God the inventor of the...
Yes, it is Pushkin. And no need to be a fan of his work, understanding the depth of these lines.
Second:
Today, I got up in the morning
Lazily crawled out of bed
In the geek tonight
Exercises is enough.
This is taken from the Internet. Poems composed person, so they also have a place to be. From the further comments refuse.
And what happens in any interpersonal relationship?
the same problem. Our communication is poor.
here is an example from personal experience.
there was a family quarrel between husband and wife. The customers request was as follows: "Help us to understand – we don't understand each other."
Began to find out why. Were the couple decided to buy a new refrigerator. After touring several stores, stopped at a particular model. Immediately began to bring, and a few days later my husband went to pick up a fridge with friends. However they brought the wrong one. Wife didn't like it.
my Husband explained that this model is much better than before. Although its price is more expensive – it is more reliable, practical and roomy. And it was true.
his Wife explained that this fridge is huge and not convenient, it occupies a large area in the kitchen and the color does not fit into their interior. And it was also true.
All of the above are outlined in the consultation.
In personal communication they said anything but no true cause of their feelings, thoughts and desires. But both wanted to improve their way of life, their living conditions.
the Ability to Express their thoughts and difficulty which thus arises is not new. Accordingly, the perception of the other person distorted information leads to misunderstanding and false conclusions.
1830. Tiutchev F. I., in his poem "Silentium!"
... How can the heart Express itself?
Another how to understand you?
Understand whether it than you live?
the Thought expressed is a lie.
in 2012. Scientific and technological progress is developing rapidly. Means of communication has increased many times over. But the very quality of communication is poor.
What is possible in connection with this change?
the education System certainly plays a major role in the formation and reinforcement of certain skills. But perhaps, if necessary, and here to change something, to improve, to take responsibility.
Take the Royal. The Institute for noble maidens.
Certain shortcomings were then, but still. In addition to literacy, much attention was paid to proper manners and communication. Etiquette was not an empty word.
What prevents us now to benefit from the achievements of their ancestors and to adopt good things in the contemporary reality?
For starters, of course, you must start with yourself. To want to change. To change for the better. Because what you – and the environment around you. Remember what they say: "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are."
to switch to the development of his family. After all, we parents are creating your copy in the children, and the values of life inherited.
Next, from person to person, from family to family to enter the society.
As said comrade Saakhov from the film "prisoner of the Caucasus" about marriage: "think About it no one early and never too late." We rephrase this in terms of training and obtain the following "Develop anyone not before and never late." It would be a desire – the experience is acquired.
Sergei Koshelev
26 Oct 2012
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