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do Not add oil to the fire (1).
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Remember, however you is not hurt or annoyed or angered — he suffers much stronger. If he could stop and extinguish your zeal, believe me, he would have done it, because the fire of jealousy is very painful for jealous. So don't push on the sore spot and not give him an excuse. Keep a pot of oil away from the fire!
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Confess your secondary benefits (2).
You unknowingly, even unwittingly, can inflate and maintain his jealousy. This happens when you get this secondary benefit. The point, of course, debatable, but serious. So think, do you not allow his jealousy to achieve something for yourself and feel for yourself something important? If you're not roasted marshmallow on the fire of his jealousy?
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Feed his ego (3).
Think about it, and how you yourself affect your self esteem? What remark are you doing, what are the reproaches he hears from you and what compliments are you talking about? Consider a contribution to his confidence in his own importance and importance for you.
just Think what you can do to help him increase self-esteem? Your influence here is very significant. If he hears from you about your strengths? You know that what you admire in him? If he feels that you accept him as he is, is that it is unique and very valuable to you?
Get a diary and write down what you told him, and after a week — conclude, if you feed his ego.
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Be really together (4).
When you spend time together, often look him in the eye, talk openly about their feelings and interests to them, his deeds, thoughts, feelings. When the weather conditions allow it, give him your undivided attention. This is very important. Be really together!
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Teach him to trust (5).
Teach him to trust you. Show by example how great it is and that it gives you, and how you would like to share with him this wonder. Sincerely sympathy, if he doesn't, and his spark of jealousy is not extinguished, and again and again show him by example that trust is a wonderful thing.
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If all of the above doesn't help, see a psychologist;) Despite the fact that you're not jealous, and he, the psychologist can work with you. Remember, any relationship is a closed system, and by changing only (for example, when someone you love refuses to work with a psychologist), you'll change and the relationship as a whole!
PS Psychological, transformational play "Impulse of Love" will help you look at your relationship in a new way and to make several important steps for their improvement!
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