Over the summer. Come school time...and away we go. And summer memories in children are still alive and bright: do what you want almost all day, play on the street and at home, sit in your tablet or computer...holidays.
School. Life has changed, but the habit remained...and starts: lessons don't want to school don't want want to sleep leave me alone. Came home from school - in tablet. The night finally creeps out the child to do homework. Mom and dad on the ears - kick and kick the child. And finally reached the limit of parental patience - tablet/phone/ removed/ripped out the wires from the computer. Fuf, you can relax. But no...a new history begins.
the continuation of the story depends on many reasons. I will cite a few: the type of personality, from the reasons why the child is sitting in the gadget, on the level of education, from the age of the young lad, the type of the nervous system.
Situation 1. Withdrawal starts immediately. The child begins to yell obscenities good, to wrest the gadget from the hands of parents, swearing, spewing curses. After the flood of emotions and words, plunk and close the door from parents your heart and the room - offended child to the very depths of the soul...Lessons refuses to do all, and more ready to leave home forever.
Parents begin to engage in bickering or worse in a fight. Then also go the other way. Someone just coolly goes in the room or pointing gesture shows the way the child.
Situation 2. On the contrary, the child will be happy. He's been waiting for liberation gesture parents. It was unbearable to throw his friend-gadget. The child is happy - the parents are in shock but happy too. Finally lessons will be done on time and parents can relax.
the days Pass...a child came home from school, asks parents to play a little gadget before completing the lessons, the parents respond very sweet refusal - the child is instantly transformed into a wild boar. And all the same behavior as in the case of number 1.
you Can continue to describe the consequences after the abolition of drugs and the onset of withdrawal symptoms in the child. But the end - stress for child and parent. Feelings of guilt, shame for my child, etc.
When you're a spectator or a reader is one sense, and when in the middle of it is another. Sometimes the ground was slipping from under his feet. Do not understand the reasons, well, what am I doing wrong? How to help your child? And what to do - to take or not?
a colleague and I have been working with children and parents. This is the beginning of the year and we see that it is very important to parents. Therefore, we organized a seminar on "Gadget in the family. How to protect my mother's nerves?". Yes, not only mother's but father's. Dads are people too and sometimes even more worried for their children, as a lot of time at work and get lost in such situations with children. We at the seminar in addition to information, the real tips are ready to support everyone in solving the problems of gadgetmania. We boldly declare that this is a solvable problem and there are a number of steps that will help You to solve it.
Link to the workshop https://www.b17.ru/training.php?id=48193
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