In recent years, women write to me about their hard life. It's hard "to carry", "all depends on us, women, family, children, house, everything on me", "husband doesn't help, treats me like a servant" "I have to make sure, that all was well", etc. They get desperate, and some believe that even to be born a woman was a mistake, it is better to be a man. br>
When I read posts from tired women's burden women, I myself getting hard. Another trick that a lot of many women (and men too, by the way) is considered female destiny. If you imagine that "everything depends on women", that "all women" women are treated like "the help," which she designed in order to satisfy somebody's needs, in spite of his that a woman is just a vehicle for men, it is very easy to be disappointed in this very purpose. I certainly don't want to be a woman.br>
But it is in actual fact in the minds of those who think so! Dear, dear girls and women. Where such installation? Whether or not the woman everyone needs? It is really all in her hands and she's so Almighty that it affects everything? br>
All of this hammered into your head is not too happy with women, or not too Mature of men. This is someone's stereotypes that you believed and are now trying to implement these (terrible, I apologize for assessment) purpose. br>
the Woman - the victim. Is it so? Of course, your choice to believe it and continue to live, suffering and dragging on itself the entire burden of someone else's settings, assign them to yourself and give your daughters, or choose another way: to doubt the correctness of such beliefs and to look soberly at life and what you really can and what not? What you can influence, what not? What can you do to protect yourself and your strength in order to be a happy woman, a caring mother and loving wife?br>
If you will follow someone else's settings, ignoring your needs, then you will not last long. You may be able to function, to exist, to show signs of life, but not to live. Fully, freely, and harmoniously. What if all this purpose? Then what is its meaning at all? Die, become irritable, unkempt, drunk, sick, tired... ? Why do? That all was well!!! Really all this will be okay?!br>
No animal in nature is not going to neglect the satisfaction of their potrebnosti in order to perform some dubious purpose. In General, animals are effective in their lives. They have no depression, no personality disorder. They are not disappointed in who they are. Because they are just doing their job. Cute girl, just do YOUR thing. If you well, can not give up, as it SHOULD, then ask yourself: to whom is all this necessary? It is necessary to you? If you don't need, but you do, you take the role of victim. That's all. And it is your choice. br>
If you choose to live for somebody, ignoring yourself, then you don't accept yourself. You might not even know themselves, their needs, importance and value. If you are here and now reading my article, or you wrote to me about your sore topic, it's about time to start using Wallpaper. If it responds, then you are hooked. If you get hooked, then, is to stay on time and panamacity that happens to you, what is born: what sensations, feelings, thoughts, images?
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