Ты решаешь или за тебя решают?(Снова о внешности, комплексах и прочем...)

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do You know the “to” and “after”?

Usually it is popular among women that lose weight or change my hair or to radically change its image.

But among the men I met, too, of course. Sin is not to show the popup biceps people around:)

what am I? I mean is that I can do it too.
But first I will talk about the prerequisites to this action.

I wrote here here  here  about appearance and about imposed standards of beautys. 

And wrote about that femininity and masculinity - the constructs that are optional for effective existence in our world imposed from the outside.

And then toAjday person has the right to choose what he wants to be.

“judge Not, that ye be not judged» said the great Messiah, he and psychologist AndJesus Christ.

And he was right.

But now those who have not heard it. Rather about those who do not respect themselves so that ready to judge others by our own standards.

Such people have always been. Always there. And always will be. Let premem it as a fact and move on.

by the Way, who likes to judge catch the space of this article, there is something to make money.

Back to my example “to” and “after”.

I Confess immediately to not hide. I ho didn't want to be feminine, never liked makeup and all sorts of these “female” things.

But, attention. About 8 years ago I looked like this.

Gorgeous woman, isn't it?

But it wasn't me. Why? Because there was a feeling that I'm skin. And you know what? I thought I was SUPPOSED to be.

Because I'm *censored* woman.

And every morning, I wore this skin and every night she was shot.

what do you think was inside? Can assume in the comments.

I will answer the point. Inside was a wild uncertainty, a sense of worthlessness and andabsolutna dependence of the surrounding things, circumstances and opinions.

Now I look so. (by the Way, in the same Studio. Just with the difference in many years. Just realized now)
Nice to meet you. It's me, Maria Zalessky, coach confident behavior and your independence.

I Think it is understandable, right?

Internal were external. And now I like myself. And no longer feel skin, but rather feel a great aura around himself.

It was indeed a powerful and dramatic changes, primarily in thinking. That is why I am as a person and a specialist talk about them with pride.

But… not all women, and especially men, understand the situation.

Why? Because too much about “how” and “how to be" in the minds of our fellow citizens.

it is a Pity that people don't understand that it is these restrictions alienate each from calm and prosperous life.

how to filter my thinking? What do we choose - freedom or constraints? Leave the questions open.

© Maria Zalesskaya. All rights reserved




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