Today you are 17! You're getting older! Oh well I still call you little pet names. You know, I stop myself, from this day forward I will refer to you differently. Childhood goes, and with it a certain carelessness, weakness, freedom... And this is not what I want to say.
Now is the moment when you're with "passenger seat" expect from "driving". Do not rush, do it gradually, as in the case of teaching leadership. Train some time with the letter "U"))) Well, at least because you're still on the parent software and you some time you want "insurance". Take that time for yourself – to get a skill to choose.
Imagine that your life is a horse or a car, and you against them may be the rider-occupant. You can either manage your life or let go of the reins, the wheel – let them manage others. Now you have to choose from. Right to choose what's good for you, that is bad. The right to make decisions for themselves, their own benefit. Do not rush... it is important to understand from which you depart when you choose.
the choice Is contrary. Here, you think I'm an adult! I'm tired of your sermons, prohibitions and phrases like: "wait, is still small, here will grow up, then..." EVERYTHING!!! ROSE!!! Can do in their own way!!! And often it turns out like the proverbial "spite grandmother frostbitten ears". Don't be hasty.
the choice Is no choice. Here, I think you – THEY tell you to do so – where to study, where to work, when to marry etc. THEY know better! Yes?!? Do not believe!!!
And can be YOUR choice. Like this? How do you know? You know, like the horse it is the horse and the car are the same. But only the rider or driver know all the details about their wards. And you don't want YOUR horse to feed poison and pour that anyhow in YOUR car. Only a loving master knows what to feed his horse, when, in what quantity. When to stroke, when to spur when to rest, when to run...
So are you – be a loving owner! Being aware of yourself, listening to the voice of his conscience, the sound of your heart, choose only what makes you stronger, more successful, healthier, happier!
Choose YOURSELF!
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