the Basement of the female psyche is the unconscious world of the instincts, feelings, needs, impulses of a woman, her natural self, her creative potential.
But in our society a lot of stereotypes about what a woman should be, about how to behave and what role to play. And a lot of plants from the family, handed down from generation to generation that dictate how to treat to men, children, their professional activities, etc. Such stereotypes and installation are predators that kill the impulses of the female psyche, it is the brightest and most promising dreams, hopes, secret desires. And then the woman goes against his nature and it is not his way. In the basement of a woman's soul of such bodies can be mountains. Because women are often very persistent in their desire to ensure a decent life for themselves and their children. It is a genuine deal with his conscience. And the woman becomes "good", "correct", "good", rational, controlling, docile, friendly, etc. thus it loses its spontaneity, naturalness, energy, natural wildness, intuition, femininity, sensitivity... In very advanced cases it will become to work on unloved work or suffer an unloved man, to abortion, to wave to their health, enough sleep due to heaps of household duties, to seize the inner emptiness or tension, to save weight, often be annoyed, yelling at their children... and eventually will start to hurt to fall into depression, suffer from apathy. To a greater or lesser extent in different periods of life it happens to almost every woman.
Some of them are in my consultations. But not all drink in the basement of his soul and finding there is mountains of corpses, find the strength to deal with predators and to revive its nature. Many feel helpless, don't believe in their power to change lives. Too great strength of their beliefs, these predators. They need help and resources.
In the book "Running with the wolves" by C. P. Estes interpreterpath the tale of Blue Beard and says that, once glance her inmost nature, when he saw the bloody remains and frightened, the woman will not be able to appease the cry of the soul, it will not get rid of the feeling that does not live its life and die spiritually. And then, finally, she will begin to listen to your heart and to realize their potential.
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