Трудный выбор: кто из двух?

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These tips will help you choose and create a healthy relationship with your partner, and not just "get" one or the other man.

I Have a question. Please help me to understand the situation. It so happened that I'm Dating two men. Every I have good relations, but it still need only one. Who have some prospects in the development of relations? Whether it is necessary now to make a choice or wait?

have You thought about what attracted you to the beginning of the relationship with your two partners? Probably you like some of their quality. As long as your relationship continues, and you evaluate them as "good", you will not have the issue, but really these relations make you happy?

you Can ask the partner if he loves you and get a positive response. But this is not enough. a thousand times the more important question is, can your relationship stand the test of time?

So meeting and being in the beginning of the relationship, pay attention to the following points.

Maturity responsibility
the Ability to take care of themselves without someone's help. It was the ability to earn a living, and the ability to maintain order in the home, ability to cook etc. as well As the ability to take responsibility for what is happening for yourself, without blaming the other. Responsibility for his words.
Ready to grow
If your partner is willing to work and development, so you are very lucky. Together you can discuss common challenges that arise in the family, to help others to see their own shortcomings, so by eliminating them, life was harmonious.
Emotional openness
Emotional unions is more valuable than an engagement ring. This means that you and your partner share your feelings, letting him know what's going on in my soul. It is the Foundation of a strong marriage.
relationship of Trust, sincerity, honesty
the Confidence that you can trust and confide in partner, gives you a sense of security. Partner should be honest with yourself and not be a master of self-deception.
Look for one that is honest with others and with you. He should tell the truth about yourself, and trusting your integrity not to arrange inspections.
Pay attention to warning signs
They are harbingers of problems in the future.
Optimist
the Pessimists always focus on problems, always complaining , all they see flaws. Optimists view problems as opportunities, and focus on finding solutions to difficult situations. Who do you prefer? The choice is yours.
note character
Character is the inner essence of the person. Personality is how a man presents himself to others. Showing his personality, a man shows of himself. But a very impressive person did not indicate good character.
Pay attention to good heart and not tight purse
Money can't make you happy. They will provide you with only material goods. And it is not an indicator of a happy life.
the Absence of harmful habits: alcohol, drugs, Smoking
Guided by these simple tips, you can quickly identify and select suitable for you man. For this you need to be careful and not close our eyes to the obvious.
the Actions of men, that's the main measure. And not wishful thinking. Honestly deal with yourself what you need to get a man or to build a harmonious relationship in the future to create a strong family ?