Once there was a real story.
Mikhail and Svetlana worked in the same company. Michael very much liked Svetlana, and he tried to be there for her in any occasion. But she treated him as a good person, a great technician and helpful colleague. Svetlana smiled warmly and supported with Michael a relationship of trust, sometimes even brought coffee for themselves and him. Michael regarded this as a mutual gesture with her hand, and commitment to relationships. He created in his mind a virtual affair with Svetlana, and he believed in him so much that he thought it happens in reality. So it took half a year. Svetlana never thought that taking care of her. She knew another language vzaimootnoshenii with men. First, Michael is not interested in her as a man. Second, she liked mutual open relationship between the partners, while the speculation was not for her.
But Michael didn't know that. In addition, he was very modest and timid, and built relationships with women because he could. The affair ended when Michael suggested Svetlana to go with him for the weekend at the recreation center for the city. She fell into a stupor from such a Frank proposal. Only now occurred to her that Michael her neravnodushen. For her there was a question: how correctly to tell the person that he chose the wrong woman. That she will never love, because she doesn't like him as life partner. That she has her own priorities and goals, their understanding and the feeling men, with whom she sees herself in life.
Svetlana picks up the words, and as soon as the time comes sincerely and openly admits to Michael that he was to her esteemed colleague and person, and between them is only possible friendships.
Michael was deeply disappointed and resentful. Tale collapsed in one moment and no more novel left to ash, who soon scattered to the winds. And how to live without thinking of her, without emotion, hopes and expectations? End of story.
Michael made their conclusions: love brings suffering and despair, nothing good in life will never happen again, true love is mutual, all insinuatingly, you cannot be sincere and to Express your love, etc. Michael forbade him to Express sincerity and openness of feelings. Faith in a bright and optimistic relationship with the opposite sex has sunk into oblivion.
What to say to that?
Wof your faith it shall be given you, says the biblical commandment.These stories happen with women and men who have an inferiority complex. Confident people choose partners with whom I feel affection and harmony.
love can not be a well - known proverbAnd there are three reasons why this is so:
1. The word violence - is unnatural to human nature.
2. Violence carries an automatic resistance is the law of Nature.
3. Resistance causes hatred and aggression.
And it is also the law of Nature. Put yourself in the place of who are trying to master. Certainly in your life or there are cases when you are forced to do something you don't want. For example, was invited to dance nasty to you and you were, afraid to hurt his feelings. It was awkward to refuse and you had to endure his touch. And after the dance you wanted to disappear from the environment of this man.
what you need to make other people love you?
Do you not deserve to be loved just like that? Or are you so do not love and respect himself, that only violence will help you?
if you Want to, what would you use violence?
Do unto others as you want them to do to you.
Want to experience true love?
If the answer is "Yes", then learn to love yourself. Self-sufficiency will bring success in all areas of your life. Choose in their relations the mutual love and you will know true feelings.
Love always was, is and will be free feeling. All that brings suffering is an addiction, insecurity, fear, and other feelings.
do you believe in love?
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