of Course, the "reasons" for the failures of a great many, but the awareness of these three can lead to real changes in your life. "Can lead" not the same as "will", it will be necessary also a good try, but more on that later...
shall we Begin?!
FIRST REASON
to Start with "the nail on the head" I will not - healthy eyes with eyebrows still useful to us, but with a difficult theme to start from.
If the person thinks of themselves OUTSIDE the NORMS AND MEASURES focused on the benefits for themselves, if "I" is Central, dominant, and perhaps the only place in his dream, goals, his aspirations, with great probability, or it reaches the desired or desirable will not bring him the satisfaction and joy that could be correlated with nested his efforts, time and energy.
This is a difficult point. Complex means composed of many. That is, to "open" it, you first have to "see" cause and effect, to see the relationship of Life that usually escape being not so careful consideration.
let us Consider some examples.
- you have a sore finger (assuming you've cut it) or aching knee, or something, if you will all think and think about yourself, in this case, the finger or the knee, just the same, with a huge probability this part of the body will bring you to the of poverty.
But if you direct your mental and energetic gaze to the other (the mother who needed help on a friend who needed at the moment companion, a loved one, where you could get something, say a delicious lunch or ironed a shirt), then, unbeknownst to you, your area of discomfort to change its state. Of becoming unbearable to bearable, from the disturbing - barely noticeable, and even for a while to disappear altogether.
And this will have no magic, and only your wise approach.
- have you set a goal centered on you, for example - become more slender (the word "lose" in spite of all the objections of skeptics does not carry harmonious vibrations comes from the word "evil" - so we replaced it with alternative, but safe in all respects). It would seem, "how can you want to become more slender? This goal must be focused on ME!"
But not all so simple.
As I wrote already in one of my previous articles, when you schedule something "for yourself" you begin to help, visibly and invisibly, those who love you, who care about you - your loved ones, and most importantly - your Teachers and Patrons (if you like "angels"). Again there is no mysticism here.
Everyone will tell you that at least once in your life felt, even in solitude, there's someone nearby, someone cares, helps, loves of a Great soul, once associated with us channel "Mother-Child", certainly are next to each, protecting.
[this too is quite difficult to imagine that eyes probably do not, but ought to feel - in this example, just imagine a very specific of your loved ones who in one degree or another want to help you achieve your dreams.]
So, if my goal directed at me - it makes sense that to help me become my Teachers and Patrons.
And if I SEE the purpose and the importance for others - in our example, this can be, for example:
*the joy of parents from having their child become healthier and more harmonious;
*the motivation for friends - once she was able, so it's not impossible and I will be, too, if I do;
*respect for and an example to your children - my dad/ my mom, I'm proud of him/her
*...
* in the end, this event can be considered a benefit to all Mankind! What? Became more healthy people on the planet! (I'm not going to argue that only slim hid health, but no one will deny that a slender and fit person generally has more reason to health).
And when we "saw", "felt" that our goal will bring something good for others at that moment and their Teachers and Patrons joined in to help support your goal. And the more FOR SOMEONE, the more powerful message of support and energy for the execution of the plan you will feel.
the SECOND REASON
"Any deal will die from denial and sadness," said Concordia Antarova. I couldn't agree more! In this paragraph I want this idea to focus on clear and understandable "do NOT BELIEVE!"
Our fears, worries, anxiety, if you dig, have at the root of the condition "do not believe" "I don't believe you can"; "don't believe everything will be all right"; "do not believe that I deserve a better life" and many others.
"don't believe" can be conscious and not conscious.
With deliberate thoughtforms, of course, is easier - we're even AWARE of them, aware of their influence positive or negative on our lives and further, if we don't like is the influence we, again consciously, change to competent bearing if not positive, at least neutral (of course, better positive!).
Example.
- I do not believe that will be able to find a decent life partner --> model to "MEASURE trust" that I can;
- I do not believe that the business will be reliable --> "BELIEVE 50%", so he is (or how much you are willing to believe it - 30%, 70%...)
This approach is not an empty ring of positive psychology and it's easy to test - just say out loud now "I don'T BELIEVE THAT it is POSSIBLE to ACHIEVE, and then believe, BELIEVE TO the EXTENT THAT IT is POSSIBLE to ACHIEVE" and compare the feeling.
If you used to listen to their inner feelings, and prompts, you can easily feel the difference. And it will become quite clear which formulation is easier and more joyful.
If feelings no not there... Here, as with a musical ear, one hears the notes and false, and for another - everything was sung perfectly - patience and hard work and you, too, over time it will work, maybe even better than us! :)
In the example, we do not deny, we assert, respectively, to build, and this is important!
Unconsciously, the same condition will help you to identify and transform competent psychologist.
THIRD
In the consultations, and just in conversations with others, is not permissible often glimpsed the third reason - lack of integrity and specifically "not wanting to go TO the END."
"the Road will overcome the walking", "No matter how many times you fall, important how much rose", "the Desire to give up will be the strongest for a step to victory" and other wise the phrase on everyone's lips.
But as they say, to say and do different things!
How many times has the lack of integrity in my dream, commitment, devotion till the end ruined a beautiful, bright beginnings.
"Thought - Word - Final" States one of the Laws of SZEM, the formula for success and prosperity.
Only then are we successful when we thought through the word and brought the matter before the final.
Only then we receive the gift of the Universe - WELFARE.
Why?
Because in this moment man is man Creator, who thought of the invisible matter has translated to visible.
Remember our ancestors "Honor" was in great honour. If you gave the word, whoever you were, sir, a king or mere mortal, was considered a disgrace almost the whole race not to fulfill the promise.
Maybe print, signature and other proof of "truth" in our time it is needed only because people have forgotten about the importance to KEEP your WORD, BE complete, coherent to the end.
in this not cunning wisdom hidden so many health resources that much there to keep up the system a balanced diet and exercise whole person every literate in word and deed builds your health.
[For the skeptics, if such still gotten to this place, so to speak - in doing so the man "takes away" at health, granted initially to each, its "duality" - when they say one thing but think or do another.]
it seems to Me, if you think about it carefully, you will not find almost anyone his inner voice would not have felt the correctness of the position "it is important any creative idea to bring to the final." It's easy to say "Yes, it's true!"
And for that you need once in silence wonder and consequences of the first (integral) and second (forked) Outlook on your life, on health, on the whole world and then, realizing, following the discovery of new Knowledge as it turns out at the moment.
so,
- the ability to see the string of Fate, their relationship between the individual and himself a cog (big or small) the universal mechanism of harmony;
- the ability to dispel sadness and denial, concentrating itself in the affirmation of life, as "I believe I believe in moderation and rule!
- the ability not to give up, and remember that the darkest time is just before the DAWN, to go to the end, to act, to be loyal and faithful to the fact that we chose someone and I fell in love with
will help to restore the lost harmony, unlocking powers and returning again the concept of "Luck" in your life.
But by the time of the introduction of these three points in you have certainly tightly settle the conviction that Luck, Magic, and so no, there is Knowledge in different forms.
With Love,
Irina Potemkina
P. S. the Article was written for "strong in spirit", those who are learning to see the cause of failures and difficulties in yourself, not in others; every day more and more aware of the materiality of thought and responsibility for all what managed to think - I'm -grateful feedback, reposts, likes and comments from people!
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