the Main tool in my psychotherapeutic work — is an internal sensory apparatus. I'm learning to notice the subtle shades of emotions, return it to the client, to teach him to understand himself. In emotional terms I'm like a foodie or a sommelier. This is my bread.
And then this ad unit. Explosions, screams, dramatic scenes, vivid speech, expressive facial expressions, fantastic visuals, deafening audio. Feel like this is my sensory apparatus to break a rock, split open with a crowbar, podawa hook the most basic emotions, influencing all at once, invading and manipulating. No taste — no flavor enhancers. Not subtle senses is only a Frank and hard manipulation. All shades and halftones filled by a layer of vigorous, himonya paint. And the answer is a storm of emotions: fear, anger, grief. And the main thing — aversion to this satiety. Almost to tears.
in Order to survive under this onslaught, you need to learn less feel. Learn how to anesthetize their feelings. And then such concentrated "stuffing" will produce at least some impression. As the skin on the fingertips of the guitar is covered with corn and not ill.
In psychology there is a concept of alexithymia. A condition in which a person is not able to comprehend, evaluate, describe your feelings. And this is the state in which, according to the manufacturers advertising, is a Philistine. Advertising becomes both the answer and the cause of this condition. Along with the increasing pace of life, the pursuit of personal efficiency, brightness, contrary to attentiveness to their feelings. In a big city and the Internet, we get too many external impulses inside of us is born with too many reverse reactions. The brain learns all of this not to notice.
And here comes to me the client. And talks about the fact that lives, as if, someone else's life. Something's not right. It's not that. That will that not will... But how to change it and start to enjoy life, he does not know. I ask: "what do you want?" He says: "I don't know..." I ask, "what does it feel like?" He says: "Nothing..."
Satisfaction with life starts when it is possible to recognize and meet their needs. And recognition of their needs begins with recognition of their feelings.
Be picky about food. Be picky people. Be discerning with the feelings and emotions. Be careful and satisfy yourself. Otherwise, there are certainly those who will try to fill. Even against your will.
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