With this query sometimes come.
Why is this happening and what can we do?
If a third object, then he needs something from me. And to "forget", it is important to find out why you need it? It forms an important link which shows some inner need. Then you can imagine how is, or could be near him and to ask ourselves, at least at the level of feelings:
"And as much as I was with him?"
or
"Or as I like myself beside him feel?"
Probably there is. In this object there is something which is not there in the husband that excites you. And then we ask ourselves:
"what it does have is attractive?"
"And what is missing with your husband?"
This relationship can be very similar to the relationship with someone important from the past. And the object is similar to someone from the past: mom, dad, stepfather, brother. There's something subtle in common. And then you can still ask ourselves:
"what's he like?"
a Connection with that person can cause some very strong feelings. Resentment, frustration, irritation, desire, longing. And can I ask one more question:
"To whom I have often had similar feelings in the past?", "What I feel when just thinking about him?"
what else could be the connection?
Well, I'd say so.
1) that it is time for you husband to become more open with each other and by opening up to let in your relationship something new.
2) And long overdue it's time to finish something in the past.
"the Third wheel" appears in life is not accidental, it comes to something to balance, complement, or fill of something old, not so much forgotten, much depressed.
"Where I have gone out of balance?" and "what I didn't want to remember?"
now, if it's about you, you can try this: imagine it before you, and to talk in detail, "eye to eye" on all that is discovered while responding to questions. In fact, about its meaning in your life. And then turn your backs and feel.
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