Now in psychological trauma to all who about this story learned and who have at least a small sensitive piece of my soul.
For the psyche of the children's death is the trauma of mass death even more of a shock and massive loss of children in a fire is breaking trauma.
it would be Good to understand it. And what happens to us is our way to deal with cannot fit experiences. br>
Someone lives sorrow and pain through contact with these feelings. In their posts about compassion, about your fears. Someone touched very deeply. Gradually it will pass. If there is better to the psychologist.
Some cope with trauma through the transformation of this energy into anger, rage, fight. Real or verbal. The vector can be quite varied. Degree - from reasonable to insane. Some posts are quite reasonable arguments about responsibility alone, second, third. This is an adequate question that comes to mind in such situations. In some people's posts on the verge of rabies. Maybe it's the officers or soldiers of the information war. But most of all the same people who are "easier" to pass the stage of horror from occurring in the expression of anger, joining in the same angry. Is also an option. Risks to be condemned, quarrel with someone, become the unwitting "soldier" infovoyny. br>
There are options for a "peaceful distance". Some reduced sensitivity, people removed from the situation, trying to read less. Very rarely or never comments on posts about the event. Saving mode itself. Someone is doing it deliberately. Here there is no cynicism. br>
And there is a mechanism to stay injury - "a cynical depreciation". Misanthropic statements. It's the same suspension, but with an arrogant attack. It says that people find it difficult and unbearable to touch the pain inside. Risks to cause indignation among the people, to insult someone's feelings, to pass an "asshole". But usually in such a familiar way to pass through trauma cynicism - these effects of the person concerned. br>
We pass through the horrors of existence. How can anyone... someone ways jar... but what is the size of the soul. br>
I Want to say about those affected by this tragedy personally, but whose life is pulled out the most expensive people. This pain cannot fit, neosmaslenne... Deepest sympathy to them. This pain can survive only by dividing it with other people.
Many people relating to this story, now live with the guilt. And its too scary to imagine. And it is also a pain.
Those who weren't there, in that hell - has no right now to judge and evaluate, to condemn and punish...
Be careful in his statements.
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