the Tragedy in Kerch - grief, exacerbating the huge number of family and social problems to which few people pay attention until the tragedy will not happen, and the absolute total psychological ignorance.
What is the College from a psychological point of view? It is primarily the combination of a large number of teenagers in the same space. One who has never worked in College or school for troubled Teens, he had never felt this electrified, ready to erupt at any moment atmosphere.
we are not Talking about obedient and psychologically Mature teenagers. But among diligent students a lot of accentuated personalities, actively wanting to assert themselves and present themselves to the world in any way .
They are rebelling against the adult world in different ways; obey my "hormonal storm" ( the amount of hormones in the blood of a teenager is 4 times higher than hormone levels in adult blood. 4!), can't manage it. They want to be heard, want to be respected and accepted them "as if" maturity.
My initial experience was at a school for troubled Teens and in College, with the same tough guys. It's the best for quenching of the psychologist and the study of all types of accentuated or pronounced traits. They go to the contact, if you trust and this takes time. They interact, but very carefully. They slip, but quickly fade, if you respect an adult.
How to communicate with them, the teachers in College? Often, as with the children of fifth class, allowing you were publicly humiliated. And they don't forgive. And if choleric type will react immediately, loudly cried, flinging the chair and slamming the door, bursting into an angry tirade, phlegmatic schizoid personality outwardly react in any way. And the unsuspecting teacher continues to "assert themselves" on it.
But pronounced accentuation period identical to schizoid psychopathy, outwardly quiet and withdrawn teenager, elaborate plan of revenge. And this plan is such that another psycho you'll never guess. Never. Because schizoid outwardly quiet and emotionally cold, he has no sympathy, empathy, no concept of the other. But there are special, different from other type of thinking, and sufficient "I" that can respond to the systematic humiliation of adults in College. Revenge, as an expression of self, a terrible, cold, calculating.
Whom he shot from adults? True, the head teacher and teachers. Have a schizoid type just doesn't happen. He accurately calculates and plans, asked themselves which of the offenders we have to avenge in the first place. Not to gasp, and think it is necessary. Us for adults, think it is necessary and the sooner the better.
a competent psychologist such students cause increased attention because they are special and very important to find an approach to them, and it is not easy. "Some individual approach? - excitedly shouted to me teachers of the University after my seminar on adolescent environment and the peculiarities of the manifestation of accentuations. - The word can't pronounce it! And that, to learn ALL THIS psychology is necessary? And why is it me, economist ( accountant, customs officer)?".
Yes, indeed, to anything. Before the tragic event of the first or second or third? And while the education system will not be an individual approach and the necessary psychological knowledge, at least about the features of identity formation and the interaction with the teenagers, will reap the fruits of my psychological ignorance.
2) the license for the weapon. Where have you ever seen a psychiatrist conducted a thorough survey on mental disorders? Money talks, and no-one answers. And needs. For example, someone who signed the license that killer. A show trial for the sold weapons license is the best means of corruption without another word.
3) media - just want to matter - relishes such crimes in other countries. And this "heroism" to outsiders, a great way to Express yourself. Become a hero, which will speak all, to become the most feared element, which all fear. Don't want to play nice? Get that's a tragedy. Take the news about such crimes in other countries and you'll see a very precise pattern of their origin. But who needs it? The more tragedy, the steeper the news. Lying in the frame morning news shot on the stairs a teenager - is not a reason to be proud of his "report" and consider themselves cool journalist. Censorship on the side. More blood, more tragedy, more violence. That was something that openly flaunt. While teenagers want to be heroes, no matter what the situation is. Although, who cares? Certainly not the adults who run such footage aired.
In my professional opinion, the tragedy is so many links that led to disastrous consequences And not only in today's crime business across the education system, where the notion of interaction teacher-student is increasingly becoming the rare exception. As Teachers with a capital letter generally can be put in the Red book.
to Change anything after yesterday? No. Because we remember the problem only when it thunders... But sorry.. After all, many tragedies could be not only avoided, but also to exclude. But who needs ALL THAT developmental and differential psychology and psychologists, who have long been sounding the alarm... What's next?
the Psychologist Irina Courage
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