Alexey Lysenko RA. br>
Therapy using surrogate sexual partner.
Chance looked at the discussion on the local forum, and was horrified. To me, it seemed that the majority of psychologists has the idea of sexterapi. Alas, it was just a dream. So I will try to at least give you a General idea about the topic.
Many do not speak halvah, in a mouth will not be sweet. So often and sexual problems. The theory and the best therapy will not achieve much. People to get out of problems, we need real positive sexual experience. From this understanding was born gradually, sexterapi. It includes a number of exercises aimed at solving a variety of problems: the formation of positive voluptuous reflexes, control over erection and ejaculation, learning to orgasm, and the ability to disconnect from unnecessary thoughts and focus on the sensations, relax, vaginismus, etc.
the Theme of psychotherapeutic... sex is not new. But few are far from the sexuality of people actually able to say something intelligible on the subject. People with serious sexual problems are often not resolved to engage in sexual relations. Many of them have almost no positive experience of sexual interaction. Plus a lot of far-fetched fears, of horrible fantasies, etc. of Course, it would be ideal if each such client was a loving, intelligent, caring sexual partner, clearly ready to follow all recommendations of the therapist. Only where to take it from people who are afraid of sex as hell of incense. Or so confident of their sexual insolvency that to fail one more time for them is death. To help them to overcome this psychological barrier is a task of enormous complexity. And the Soviets quickly with someone to meet and have sex are worth little. Complexes and fears tenacious to hold people in his arms.
but in such cases, in some places in the world and seek sexterapi with the help of hired specially trained people. Both men and women. Naturally, in this role to make himself a psychologist, therapist or sexologist. But here there are so many various BUT very different plan, which, as a rule, something like practice just, to put it mildly, Horny specialists. And sexual intimacy with a client, as a rule, detrimental to the process of psychotherapy. There are roles that should never mix. So sex for psychotherapeutic purposes with the clients themselves psychologists, psychotherapists and sexologists practice very rarely. Usually, where sex takes place with the client that starts a simple life, relationships. And effective psychotherapy, you can say good – bye. You or the therapist, or sexual partner. Most of these contacts occurs only in the fevered imagination of ordinary citizens, thinking about all the exciting possibilities the person to whom any charming lady often in consultation. Here, I must say that the psychologists and sexologists. And there are some that fall in love and sleep with their FORMER clients. And believe me on word that their primary instinct is often STRONGER corporate ethics. We are people of hope adults. And let's not delude ourselves with fairy tales, is born in the minds of starry-eyed people with modest sexual Constitution, have no idea how much the covers sometimes some people, regardless of their occupation, lust.
But I slightly digress. Back to the topic. For a successful process of sexterapi the desired sexual partner, ready to act within strictly defined the framework of its tasks. There are a number of sexotravesti exercises that help to produce the desired positive response. Real partners with whom to do the exercises required in a significant proportion of customers, as I said, no. And theoretically, such problems usually are not solved. Desired experience in successful sexual interaction. But in such cases, and can help, not only common prostitutes and the prostitutes, and specially trained and prepared people, who understand that what they are doing. Exotropia in General, very effective. After the scheduled series of exercises in combination with concurrent therapy, takes many far-fetched fears. People finally gain enough confidence to try to have a real sexual relationship with someone. Sexophobia, vaginismus, anorgasmia and many other problems quickly retreating at the onslaught of sexterapi.
But the method of attracting sexual partners hired meets ardent, self-righteous resistance are far from real knowledge of the sexuality of people. They think that it is corruption, etc. So that such treatment is in many countries illegal. Doing it for the most part your own risk. Although people with sexual problems, avoiding many years of sexual contacts is often the only real solution. Why? Because they are much less afraid to engage in sexual contact under the supervision of a doctor, as none of the usual fear to fail, to disappoint the partner, etc. They are willing to try... and that's if the course sexotravesti exercise assigns a real expert, gives the result. Not to mention the fact that as less dangerous to the psyche than a wild, uncontrolled experiments with the new, read – random, sexual partner, often only further enhances iluminaciones and fears. Personally, I have no doubt that sooner or later this practice will be institutionalized. Why? Because it is the right people. And because everything is absolutely clean from a moral point of view. One person needs help, another, specially trained, has her. No one is cheating. And do not use. All is fair. Consensual between adults, sane people. But how moral is it to deprive people of this opportunity, think for yourself. I expressed my opinion. With best wishes to all.
Alex RA.
February 2014.
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