Technique "Paldactnoe hearing"(V. Satir).
Objective: exercise is the most accurate perception of the meaning of partner information and positive communication skills
Time needed to implement technology: 15-20 minutes.
instructions: Partners sitting opposite each other.Each partner in turn takes on the role of the listener and the speaker. Listening is important: *to fully concentrate on speaking; *to refuse any negativity towards the speaker; *not to use other people's biased assessments of the speaker; *to be completely free from embarrassment and to ask any clarifying questions, *pantomime to show that the meaning of what the speaker heard and understood.
note. Partners, or one of them may be from participation technique, if you can't be Frank, honest, sincere and truthful, saying: "I'm Sorry, but today I'm not ready/a to the conversation. I can't understand the meaning of your information. We will return to this conversation later."
Result: partners are beginning to understand the difference between the meaning of the speaker and the perception/understanding of the meaning by the listener, learn the skills of positive communication.
Value of engineering: partners, instead of guessing made information, learn to hear and listen to a partner/Shu and to create empathic communication background the exchange of intimate information, which has previously avoided.
Technique "Three of a positive response,"(V. Satir).
Objective: training partners careful, accurate perception and understanding of information transmitted to each other.
instructions: Partners sitting opposite each other. Each partner in turn takes on the role of speaker and listener. Talking partner utters a statement that felt true. Kusasi partner expresses their reaction to the statement of the partner phrase: "You mean that...?", and using udachnymi questions, shows how he understood the contents of the said approval. The purpose of listening three times to get a positive response, demonstrating that he correctly grasped the meaning of the utterance of the speaker. If asking questions is wrong interpreterpath partner uttered the phrase, then speaking partner explains that specifies the exact and specific meaning of certain words (polysemy of words). For example:
*saying "I feel lonely..." or "You don't trust me..."
*the listener, "You mean that...?"
Result:partners clearly convinced *ease of manifestation of negative feelings and emotions against each other; *the complexity and difficulty to begin to openly recognize the advantages of a partner.
Value of engineering: execute this technique leads to the growth of understanding in the pair; to improve communication between partners, increased mutual trust and sympathy.
to be Continued....
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