What is this technique?
This equipment is a combination of paradoxical intention and my favorite cognitive-behavioral therapy. Immediately warn you: strange technique. You have to be "a little cuckoo" to her perform (and to offer, Yes :)). If your client is a man very serious, I don't think it would suit him.
the Technique was born in the process of my practice when working with one client over her panic attacks, we have tried a number of known techniques and techniques, and they gave results, but not stable enough.
Then I decided to experiment and offered the client an impromptu method, which will tell you.
the Essence of the technique is possible to represent the two key tasks that you can put to your client:
the client:
1. Look for opportunities to "meet" with his PA in a special outfit.
2. Use the position of the Researcher-Auditor (leading the famous program "revizorro").
Let's look at why and how it works.
1. Look for opportunities to "meet" with his PA in a special outfit. What is this outfit? Customers usually choose something strict, do strict hairstyle, wear goggles, gloves, or anything else that creates a "serious business person". And in this very suit your client goes in search of his panic attacks in the most "dangerous" places (which he already found out from you, in fact it's absolutely safe).
This search is implemented very carefully, down to the comic situations that will arise from your customer. For example, I had cases where customers looked in the trash cans, analyzing the light, looking for THE darkest of all available corners, carried out the comparison of the different elevators for the criterion "adequacy of neizvestnosti" and "adequacy of tesnosti" and so Is the game in which it is impossible to lose. Especially if you will help the client and prompt main "cheats".
2. To meet with the PA in the position of the Researcher-Auditor. Scientist who observes, measures, calculates all possible indices. As does the presenter in the program "Revizorro". If you didn't see enough to look at any issue (and show the client) to understand the essence of this position.
you Can take along the necessary tools to measure pulse, pressure, etc., BUT (and this is very important colleague!): is not in the position of Victim, and position of maximum austerity Aunt, or Uncle-researcher, which all these data will record and will give "place".
to Implement this task is usually client easier, if he will imagine that is on the transfer of filming or film, it is removed from the camera (or you are really going to remove the camera mobile phone). Behavior is demonstrative, "test" is very thorough. It's the same game.
Opportunities
You can combine this technique with exposure therapy. So you personally can also participate in audit activity in relation to the PA client.
But a colleague, then you also need a special suit :)
This fun exercise gives great results! But if you will not regret your time and effort and will travel with the client – the likelihood of success increases several times.
Perhaps the main result: relationship to panic attacks a customer changes once and for all. He ceases to be afraid of them. It is no longer towards her in the position of the Victim.
I Hope is this technique or the very principle today will have a positive impact on your practice.
And maybe you'll think of your Game? :)
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