It's time to talk about another very important aspect of sexuality is the levels of formation of libido. And so you will understand all this important for each of us, again, I want to introduce you to the basics of sexology. Hence, often grow legs sexual problems, both male and female.
These levels are not many, only 3, both for women and for men.
Let's start on us, loved ones, ladies. So, the first level or the first phase of formation libido is a Platonic love or a Platonic level. When everything lives in my head. Carnal desire has not yet manifested. And it's not even a girl, and more girl who is in love with. She likes a boy. She thinks about it, but nothing so reprehensible for this age, I do not think.
Next, in the case involving the hormones, and starts the second level of the formation of the female libido is an erotic phase. At this point, there is a first inclination, when I want to have body contact, but again, in a rather innocuous variant, - kissing, hugging, touching.
Then the girl ends and the period. She learned to love in the head, flirting, game, erotic relationship, and boldly steps into sex.
then There is the third phase - sexual libido, and then sex becomes a natural need, and the apogee of the relationship between a man and a woman.
And once you can compare yourself? You have so? Often the answer is Yes, because many girls and women are stuck in the second erotic phase of libido. For them, the climax is not sex, but kissing, hugging, or just usrutsya with your beloved in an embrace.
what was it like? What do you think? – It will be one of the variants of anorgasmia or frigidity (the common people).
by the Way, if a woman got stuck on the first (Platonic) phase, it is even more problematic situation. This so-called case of a virgin. For them the erotic phase is desirable, but go they did to her I can not, because of some internal reasons that we the sexologists, therapists, and family psychologists have to work.
In this case there are different kind of techniques and methods in sexology, who focuses on the psychological growing up. I do it as quickly as possible, using approaches and methods NLP, and one psychotherapeutic session can to grow up, and become the sex to the appropriate age.
Because if you feel that sex will not be as desirable as we would like, and it was always that way, it's worth thinking – is it time to change the situation? So if this is your problem, and you are ready to give it up and to adult sexuality, then I invite you to work on an individual appointment with a specialist, for example, psychologist-sexologist.
Well, perhaps we should say a few words about men. If we consider men's level of formation libido, then also traced three phases.
Platonic – we have a man, such botany (Botanica). Then, the obsession with the erotic is often correlated with the problem of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON). I had such a customer from Moscow, with the male sexual problem of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation (STON), who spoke initially in PolishedPrices: "and who invented the sex, some solid nerves. How good kissing, hugging, cuddling, and sex... well, it's just awful!"
And then sexual libido. It is common to men with strong sexual Constitution. But it so happens that the boy grew up quickly, soon began to masturbate, and sexologists sometimes use this saying about muricin: "what to do with her in bed I know, but before and after – no idea". ie, often such men are more confusing for yourself, and for your pleasure.
All in good measure! This option is the correct phase of formation libido – everything goes alternately to each other, and people get the sex they want to have.
What is the conclusion? – If you do not like the fact that you may get stuck somewhere (this is typical of women more often than men), and sex desire in you is minimal, or somehow deformed, then this situation have to deal with a specialist – sexologist, therapist, or family psychologist.
of Course, we can wait for you to grow up psychologically in terms of sex, but can take years – and there's a choice for you. Such problems we can solve at the individual receiving, as well as in the basic format of the upcoming webinar, if you realize that your problem is not as deep, and you can handle it.
All the details about my upcoming free webinar on the topic of male and female orgasm on the portal "b-17" in the section "Webinars". We are waiting for you!
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