One of the highest values for man, is his name. Secret name is that given to man at birth, it is the invisible thread with his character and future destiny!
What is the name of each of us? This information we can easily find in the literature. But let's take our name from the point of view of a certain psychological life of the program, which asked us by our forefathers and enshrined in the status and role of our parents.
Like your name or not, and you hear it every day. And on the basis of this program, you, unknowingly, build and live your life script.
At one and the same name can be totally different scenarios.
Here, for example, the name Ivan.
Of which Ivan are you thinking now?
About Ivan the Fool from the folk tales about Ivan the terrible? Maybe I remembered your grandfather? And who someone else came up in the memories... to Call you his son Ivan – that's the character you almost ready for your first Association. And in the future you will just clip. Thoughts, attitude to the child, a kind requirements. Agree: that you are a completely different ask the question to Ivan the terrible and Ivan the Fool. And the expectations and requirements you have will also be different. So the conception of the child
About Ivan the Fool from the folk tales about Ivan the terrible? Maybe I remembered your grandfather? And who someone else came up in the memories... to Call you his son Ivan – that's the character you almost ready for your first Association. And in the future you will just clip. Thoughts, attitude to the child, a kind requirements. Agree: that you are a completely different ask the question to Ivan the terrible and Ivan the Fool. And the expectations and requirements you have will also be different. So the conception of the child and are building brick by brick the characters of our children, according to their past experience, [url=http://leusdiv.EN/universitet/zdorovie/upravlenie-stressom-5]psychological anchors, personal associations!
if you do Nasty? (A common enough name now) That your daughter is a stepdaughter from a story or Anastasia Yaguzhinskaya, and maybe Anastasia Romanov, or Nastasia – a simple Russian country girl?... And modification of name, respectively it will repeat according to your preferences. Or proud and exacting, Anastasia! Or gently, pitifully and tenderly, Nastya! Or dismissive and sharply – Nastya! Naska!
Give the name of the child is only half the job. But to lay in a personal sense! And the conscious. Not lamenting in the future not existing is in your opinion the right character! – This is an important issue!
the Impact of name on a person's character depends on the predominance of the corresponding specific sounds. What's your name? Gently or recase. Sounds of your name caressing your ear or cause a feeling of irritation, and may give a rhythm or give us hope?...
my youngest son came out of kindergarten and began to talk: "Mom, but Vlad's name suits him and Maxim too. But Andrew is his name as it is not suitable to face!" And then, whether by coincidence, or based on the point of view of his son, I saw Andrew child who does not live in harmony with each other. Does he often have conflicts, he is not happy forever. And this story helped me to rethink the importance of a name in our lives! It's one thing when you call family at birth, investing together with the name of a special program of the desired child. Because of their time, stories and their preferences, they are perfectly right! But you grow up, and this desired children because of your personality and changing circumstances suddenly brings you happiness!?
Parse:
Where did you get that name?
Why you called?
affectionately were you called in childhood?
What you liked and what is not?
now How about your name?
Your name short and crisp or long and iridescent sounds?...
Listen, what do you feel when you hear your name? Correlate it with your character and your life goals.
What is the name of the like and why?
And now will try to change something:
But do not have to change the name! Change attitude towards him. Select the desired quality and change the modification of your name. From Petka (perhaps you so called parents, and then friends in the yard) – become a successful Peter (maybe First!).
Masha conformed to the mysterious Marya.
And of the girl-boy Sasha (probably called you so because I was waiting for a son, and was born a charming little girl – which unfortunately often happens with us!) become the proud beauty Alexandra!
the Images are just for example to see the difference of people's characters with the same name. You can invent your way and pick up the appropriate modification of his name. Try, experiment. Let secret name will be your secret, raising your self-esteem and bring you success! And then life will Shine with new colors!
