Sometimes receive customers say:
I don't know what to do, I don't see any prospects for myself, I see the future. Nothing happens!
Very common error is that you put an equal sign between the real lack of opportunities and the imaginary. This means that even if you do not see the Outlook is weak due to the fact that they don't really exist. How does it work?
the fact that in everyday life we are accustomed to see only what we allow to see our ideas about how things should be, our expectations and fears, attitudes and limitations. Everything beyond that - is unknown to us. The suspense is daunting in its uncertainty. To avoid uncertainty and instability - a natural and habitual defensive reaction. That is why it is so difficult to look beyond what has long been clear and familiar.
Next, what happens when at least mental trying to get out of the comfort zone of the usual framework: included inner critic and inner worrier, and in an orbit of consciousness begin to turn thoughts from the series:
- And suddenly not work?
- would I feel happy?
- don't commit if I make a mistake?
- whether to achieve your goals and fulfill your potential?
One thought clings to another, creating a third. And it becomes even worse. That's why people often choose to do nothing and stay in place, without changing anything, even if "no future" future.
Perspective is opened when you are not afraid to open new doors. And even if one of them will be closed, there will be opened another, the options are always set.
so the moral is: the lack of prospects is also a choice, even if not always sufficiently realized. And nobody can forbid you to make a choice in favour of change, except you. What can support in this way?
Let resource for you will be the memory of those occasions in your life when in spite of everything you've achieved the desired. I'm sure that your life was such an experience.
get moving. Act. You have something to rely on.
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