what kind of dance is it like in Your relationship with your husband/partner?
Think imagine...
- Waltz - a romantic dance
- tango is a passionate dance
- Minuet - stiff cool dance
- Latin sensual passionate pair
- Flamenco is a passionate clear loud pair
- Rock-n-roll is an energetic youth doubles
- breakdance - chaotic personal
- hip - hop- unclear personal
- What is Your own dance?
born the way you can tell a lot about Your pair.
Analyze what the strengths and weaknesses of this dance.
How it reflects Your relationship?
For example, it seems that our relationship is like a waltz. A lot of romance, tenderness, beauty in relationships. The man leading in this dance? Or dance?
Or, in a couple of breakdancing. Each by itself takes equilibri, each as he wants in his own way. Everyone has their own movement. Pair dancing it turns out badly.
And some would like to dance with Your partner?
Coincides with what is presented from the beginning?
the desired In the "dance" you can move, working on their relationships.
Any relationship is work.
FIRST, no need to wait for that perfect relationship might fall on top of us and will accompany us for a lifetime.
We must work internally to understand and keep our feelings to each other.
SECOND, prevention is always better than cure. Not allowing to burn you to the ground, it is better to throw new wood on the fire of your love.
try to work on relationships, and not to give up, not be lazy, do not wait for "and you tell me what?" and the first to meet
AND FINALLY, while there is a desire, the relationship you need to save and return! You can always turn to each other, to talk, to remember as many things between you were good to forgive each other..
Want to make a small but useful exercise about Your relationship husband/man/boyfriend?
1. Think of the image "Who are You" ? (noun - any way – from books, film, stories, object)
How would You describe yourself?
Describe yourself in 3-5 words
2, Create a way for your partner (noun - any way – from books, film, stories, object)
How would You describe it?
3-5 words
Look at these images.
Can they interact? How?
How this reflects your life?
If you do an exercise can read on.
What if the images are unable to communicate? Or you can, but not effectively? Or interaction does not bring pleasure?
Transform your image. Each is responsible for itself. So, right now, reading the article, to think how I can be transformed ,i.e. changed to a pair of been more effective interaction.
case study: young female customer, born the two images. She is a female monkey from the movie with a bunch of kids, and a husband she presented as Robinson Crusoe (a loner who wants privacy). In principle, they can interact. Robinson can feed the monkey and even they are unable to communicate .. But, we thought on how it can become more effective ? Where can grow in the image of the monkey? .. In person! Then, you will agree, communication would be more productive, most likely taking pleasure in a pair!
As you know, everything changes in our relationships begin with our personal change.
Happiness and harmony in our unions depends largely on what I bring there.
Happy Dancing!
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