SO GOOD, THAT EVEN SICK...
You think this does not happen? Not at all. It is interesting that such state of pass by people who have real difficulties.
"Covers", usually those who have no significant issues, challenges or problems.
Or those who have a long way to the realization of important objectives embodied them and stopped. New goals are not set, because and so all is well. You can finally live!
the level of emergent alarm above, and her power is destructive, because it is not clear what to fight. The enemy seems to be there, but it's invisible.
the Person usually reports this as something like: "That seems all right, but something is still wrong! And the work is all good with finances and family like all too well, and I love and appreciate, but that is not so: the soul is not there. Do you have it? And how this idiocy can be explained and call? I already do not sleep at night, drinking a sedative and does not understand how such inner anxiety and anguish".
do Not confuse this state with an existential crisis. To him, believe me, far away.
As practice shows, these anxieties are just a few of reasons.
First reason is a deep-rooted unconscious stereotype.
its Essence is as follows: when there are so many failures, unhappiness and insecurity, I have no right to be here, from all sides, safe.
Or me to reject it.
Or, SUDDENLY, these benefits will take.
against this background, can and phobias to appear, and panic attacks. And there's psychotherapy!
Second reason trivial as saying "Many well – too bad."
Finally everything was adjusted, left difficulties, you can relax and enjoy life. But it's like a favorite dish that you eat every day: after a time, cease to enjoy, in the best case.
A psychological mechanism that we used to and begin to perceive good for granted. That's all good and new there. There is no innovation, no development. A deadlock.
the impasse in development always goes through a conflict. And the unconscious starts to signal that you need to do something, to change something, to move forward, to step out of the comfort zone. And there's coaching!
and the third reason here it is. When we have nothing to compare, we are not able to appreciate what you have. And compare people, usually, or bad from good or good from better. Bad like no, and starts the internal mechanism of the depreciation of the good.
the Output of this, again, through the conflict and setting new goals. It happens that such a state can be "cured" without professional assistance. Enough to see a few commercials about people with disabilities, again to begin to appreciate what you have.
In any case, there are no hopeless situations, just as no smoke without fire.
So, if you suddenly, for no reason, no reason at all, felt sick in the middle of your well-being and stability, it is better to consult a specialist and not to go to depression.
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