We often hear the phrase "your face", "your handwriting", "your style". What is it about? "Your handwriting" can be drawings, text, photographs, pages on the Internet – everything remains the next person. Where does personal style? Why someone have it and someone not? How does it manifest itself?
When people are not afraid to show himself through what he does – individuality is visible always. To hide it is much harder than the show. Can this neglect by copying someone else's successful work, but returning to itself, is easy to find the way back.
When many years ago I was counseling people, I was trying to watch how others do it. The words, the manner, the style – it seemed to me that you have to learn to learn. I realized pretty quickly that most other people's patterns, I simply do not fit, contrasting sharply with my outward appearance, voice, Outlook, finally. Someone else's method will not work if it does not close, does not resonate with the inner being. In professional communities often argue with the phrase "a psychologist works with his personality." Many people do not like this formulation. But I'm sure it is. This does not negate technology, education, experience, etc. But even technology of any psychological approach refracted through the personality of the expert, and therefore psychologists are so different.
His face may be even in text that has no photos around. You read and understand that the way that person thinks you are close and clear, or Vice versa - that with this person you would not want to have anything to do. Your handwriting. Your style. Its approach. Individuality.
Choosing a specialist, in addition to education, work experience, external data etc. – read his texts. View its pages on the Internet, listen to yourself – if you consonant what you see? If the words and reasoning of the person you speak clearly – it is the first sign of probable sympathy and fruitful work in the future.
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