mind-blowing love, an indispensable attribute of which is the status of the flight and the euphoria, sung from each iron. The meaning of life is to find the "real" love, and happiness of the individual is directly dependent on the fact whether he is in a relationship or alone. In the minds of people loneliness is strongly connected to the concept of ill-being. True love is certainly flavored by the passions, accompanied by hand-wringing and similar to emotional swings: the transition from euphoria to despair and back again. And the lovers make a lot of illogical psevdoerozii actions. Take, Romeo and Juliet, a short introduction which led to the death of both. And such love celebrated for centuries!
I sometimes think that if people were able to talk and listen to each other, world literature, cinema and pop music, if not extinct, it is much poorer.
the Truth is that there is love and there is love. They are not identical. Not always the love grows into love. And not always love is born out of love.
Love has hormonal nature. For the euphoria and "pink" glasses answer the following hormones:
- Phenylethylamine. The "molecule of love", without which there is no love at first sight. Increases sympathy and sexuality.
- Norepinephrine. Raises your heart rate and gives crawly. Under the influence of norepinephrine we grow wings and reduces the appetite.
- Dopamine. Pleasure hormone. Performs the function of positive reinforcement in the body. Responsible for the formation according to the players, drug addicts and alcoholics and ... in love.
- Endorphin. Endogenous opiate. Improves mood and paints our world in rainbow colors.
- Oxytocin. The hormone of love and trust. Involved in the formation of attachment.Under the influence of hormones, we headlong rush into a relationship. The brain is activated several months after Dating, when reduced hormone production. It is always a surprise and hurt: to see the imperfection of the partner and yearn for the elusive dream of the perfect relationship. Some time we diligently do not notice the differences, actively trying to pull the image of the dream to the partner or the partner to attract to the ideal. Accumulated discontent, conflict begins. A very unpleasant period in the development of relations.
just at this time, most couples break up. However, at this point a lot of resources: we can finally see a living person and begin to build a relationship based on reality, with him and not invented by us. And then with some effort from both sides in pair are born and growing Love.
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