people Often ask children what age works as a psychoanalyst.
the Answer is simple – age doesn't matter. Even babies understand it, moreover, on this is built the idea of psychoanalysis. The psyche of the subject begins to form due to the fact that a newborn baby listens carefully to his Mother's speech. He needed her words, in order to identify themselves. "Who am I to you?" - as if he asks the question, - "What do you want to see me?". And gives the answer in the way that may be currently development.
Here is an example of psychoanalytic work with a child under the age of 1 month.
I called the baby's mother. For the first time after childbirth the mother is often intense anxiety about the health of the child. I invited her to come along with her daughter.
In the office she walked in one:
- I did not want to Wake her, she sleeps badly, is now in a wheelchair on the street, her husband left her.
Elena said that she had a rash on the body, redness, itching. She is naughty, sleeping little, eating as bad.
I've already made up my mind, did a load of Laundry (I thought maybe an Allergy to washing powder), changed the bedding, all-natural, nothing she can't eat this, that could cause this reaction. And it only gets worse. I don't want to stuff the child with drugs.
I Must say that Elena analysand with the experience, therefore, felt the effect of psychoanalysis, she turned to me with a disturbing question.
it turned Out that it started three days ago. Elena ate almost a kilogram of fresh plums.
- Do all of this? But it's been three days, why is she getting worse? – Mother blames herself, worrying that because of this, the child tries to fix it.
Elena, what happened? Why you ate so much? – I am asking a reasonable question.
- I had problems after delivery. I couldn't go to the toilet. My sister advised me to eat prunes, she also recently became a mother.
I asked Elena to tell me all she wants about this story. Here is what I have identified out her words.
Cleared another symptom. The girl often grunting like he was going to empty the bowel, but this is not happening. She groans and cries.
Another important thing: about your problem with chair Elena told her sister in front of the girl.
Making a case for yourself, I said to Helen.
Tell your little assistant that You appreciate her efforts that she can not worry, You can handle yourself with their problem.
- You serious? surprised she said.
I'm Totally serious. Then tell how she will react to it.
Elena was gone, and the evening of the same day he called, worried, but the joy was heard in her voice.
When Anya woke up, she again began to groan. I said to her: "Listen, Annie. I thank you for what you're trying to help me. I can do it, you do not worry, please." She I listened very carefully. Then he smiled and immediately fell asleep! Imagine, she slept soundly! I even thought that she slept with redness of the cheeks.
Anya Now 8 months. All of these symptoms she had, "vanished".
because of a mother who sees the child not just a biological entity, the body. She could start treating her with drugs to go and see doctors, follow the instructions. Of course, it would soothe her conscience, but it is not clear what would have resulted.
P. S. in Any case do not want to say that psychoanalysis this is such a magical cure for all ills. Not going to blame the medicine.
But when a person is seized by anxiety, it is difficult to make informed decisions. Try to make a pause, to recover, to deal with the situation is a more reliable option to select the path in solving small and big problems.
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