In the last article we considered the grounds on which you can recognize a love relationship.
let's Talk about why this unhealthy love is possible to apply such a term as addiction.
There is such a thing as addiction without drugs. For example, addiction to food, kleptomania, gambling addiction, sex addiction, and so on. In the case of love addiction the person uses the object of his love in order to get rid of feelings of guilt, depression, anxiety and inner emptiness.
a Difficult or dangerous partner gives a lot of reasons to be involved in the process, allowing not to do yourself, and chaotic emotion in problematic relationships overshadow the deep inner feelings of "love addict".
In your love cycle dependent person goes through several natural stages:
Often to begin the cycle perfectly harmless tokens. Scratch played a violent fantasy about a fateful meeting. Dependent feels the relief that he is no longer single, he saved a frightening emptiness is finally filled.
At the initial stage of relations people experiencing euphoria, and hoped that his need for love and emotional security will be satisfied, but over time relationships bring less satisfaction, and efforts to save them is spent more. His partner treated at the initial stage of an engaging relationship, feels the pressure, control, manipulation and begins to move away from your partner. The more dependent make effort to keep the relationship from falling apart, the more partner's instructions to escape.
After parting with the object of your affection a love addict may fall into the "break-up". He might show the physical and emotional symptoms characteristic of withdrawal: chaotic thoughts, panic, anxiety attacks, depression, insomnia, nausea, sweating, convulsions, etc. In attempts to suppress these symptoms, it seeks to return to the former partner or frantically looking for a new one.
Another similarity with addiction: the person denies the existence of such a dependence in the same way as people who use drugs, because he has a very big fear to abandon this way to escape from their disturbing feelings.
Misconception to think that love addiction is a kind of nonsense. It leads to terrible consequences. People suffering from this disease, die from the effects of extreme stress as well as other dependent effects of drugs. Such dependency can destroy the lives of someone who is sick and who suffer. Aggressive dependent can go on the offense, wanting to harm fleeing from his partner. The other extreme may be causing harm to yourself.
In the next article I will tell on who is risk, who formed a love addiction who are exposed to it.
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