Безвыходных ситуаций не существует

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we call a Desperate situation, out of which we do not like.

Stanislaw Jerzy LEC

"Maria Andreevna, I have a desperate situation."
"Maria, in this area a vicious cycle, for sure no exit".
"This is definitely a desperate situation!"

How often do you experience with such statements? Maybe you do something like say periodically? And may not even periodically, and often?

For someone of desperate situation is the end of all. The end of the world, peace and prosperity. Almost death.

for someone of death is not a hopeless situation. And no, I'm not suicidal, and about a particular attitude to death. For example, believers in God or just a highly spiritual people.

"there are no Hopeless situations".

Why is adoption so popular?

the Answer is simple – it works if you believe in him. in order to what some believe, it must be true, right?

so I will try to help to believe it.

Why such "hopelessness" in life doesn't exist?

first, despair is very subjective – that is, it occurs in a particular head of a particular person. But the other in this matter, it might not be. As in the example of the death earlier in this article.
secondly, despair is often not about the lack of output, and about the fact that you're not ready or don't want to do something to find it or are not looking for it.
third, despair is often only about the fact that the outputs that actually exist(!) people just don't like on the emotional level. Mentioned in the quote before the article.

that is, it can be concluded that the despair as such really not.

Is our subjective perception, and attitude, is our laziness and apathy, is our emotions and the lack of exits. But hopelessness is not.

that's why when people come to me and first consultation say "I'm in a desperate situation", ask the person:

What are the options considered?
What does these options?
were there any actions, how and for how long?

If about despair I said the customer that we work for a long time I say:

stop, Stop, dear friend, at which point we had gone the wrong way and not looking for it? Let's think hard.

Thus, in my opinion, desperate situation is the resistance to the outputs or to actions that require these outputs, but not about the end of the world and of life for a person.

I Have a big request to you – please share your experience: as you come out of desperate situations?

Maria Zalesskaya

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