"I can't live without him (her) to live", "It's a sign of fate", "We've met in previous lives", "he (she) is so similar (a) brad pitt (angelina Jolie), and I'm crazy about him (her) "," he (she) is perfect for me in all horoscopes "- these and similar emotional mood very bad platform to create a strong relationship as a couple. Do not just fascinated by someone. Better give yourself time to understand whether or not that person developing a serious relationship with him.
If you have installation "this is my fate and I will die if I'm not with her (him)" this only means one thing - you "invented" your partner and fell in love with a fictional you the image that far from the original. We can easily be taken by an invented character, especially, if you strongly want to fall in love and to get rid of his loneliness.
Charm, love, passion do not mean that with this person you will be happy life. Opposite - a sign of kinship shower is the rest and the feeling that you are home that you don't need anything or anyone to pose as you already came to your quiet Harbor, where passions run high, and where you are happy just like that.
Often we think a soul mate has long remained invisible in the face, maybe, his best friend (girlfriend) or just a good friend - you're just good and reliable, and because there's no passion, you do not consider this man as a future partner for serious relations. But if a friend or acquaintance and still not like your own invented ideal outwardly, it all becomes uninteresting and you may decide that in this relationship there's just no chance.
to feel that my soul mate and not be taken by only the external manifestations of the men (women), you need to be Mature enough personality is a self - sufficient, happy, the one that is able to hear and feel your heart. Your main motto when meeting with a potential partner should be the question "do I Feel a real man (woman) next to this woman (man)?"
And if the original next to someone you feel second grade, and you need to beg and earn the love of your partner, while making an incredible effort just to keep this man (woman) next to you, it means that you fell into a trap of his imagination and illusions and directs you, not love and not a sign of destiny, and the inferiority complex.
a Symptom of the fact that next to your soul mate - your peacefulness, your feeling that you "welcome and best" that you just good with this man in any environment and under any circumstances. You can be yourself and you don't need to play any others for you, roles, or constantly be in the way "Superman" or "hot stuff." Near soul mate, you don't have to worry about it constantly and just enjoy the relationship with each other.
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