"and I'll do without you" - there's something childish, naive.
- you Know, my mother behaved with the position: "I am so cool, perfect, these "goats" I'm not worthy." She looked stunning, look at all high, gave offensive nicknames to others, proud of their independence.
my sister and I grew up in the belief that the father is the last of the cattle and he left us. We didn't know where he's at. Thought it should be. Imitated the behavior of the mother, and she quietly began to drink. I don't remember seeing her was men, but the ambition was rife.
As I already adult and married with a child, elicited from my mother about my father.
I was surprised to learn that neither one of us did not. She did not allow the father to meet with us, punishing him for what he could not tolerate her antics.
Father married her great love, and mother wanted to prove that she did him a favour and for that he needs to endure. The last straw was her affair. Demonstrative, no hidden cheating. The father filed for divorce, and his mother all of his life presented himself as a victim of his "meanness".
Mother took to drink and died of alcoholism. Dad and I have restored relations, which is very glad.
But my sorrow is that my daughter repeats the story of her grandmother... so began my communication with one of the clients.
PS. Similar stories I meet often. To whom it is made worse, except for themselves and their children? She was not happy, the daughters are not taught how to live in the family and build relationships.
Here's the paradox, we women have learned to be realistic in business, possess fundamental knowledge, manage companies, financial flows of cars and planes. We know how quite to think clearly and to be responsible for their actions in business.
only one area constituting the essence of human life, deprives us of common sense and a critical view on myself: the relationship between a man and a woman.
Instead of finding a partner that could complement its strengths and smoothed over the flaws, she finds a competitor. The woman, a dress or a sofa in the living room, choose more carefully than life, considering all the advantages and disadvantages.
a man to seek to find out: who is better, more correct and more worthy? And if not her, then it is necessary to punish the culprit. Any way and the harder, the better.
Originally, we have different tasks, and the slogan "I myself" is flawed at its core. Why?
the Woman due to its nature, physiology is not stable due to the hormonal cycle. Even the healthiest and well-balanced woman intermittently ill and physically and emotionally, and not every woman is aware of this report. The child becomes an unwitting witness to, participant in and a victim of the situation associated with the emotional imbalance of the mother and he is not in whom to seek support.
And more. We really are different and logically should not compare apples with crocodiles, they are in different categories.
the Man always does everything for women comes to the woman, away from her, not from children, earns money, builds a house and plants a tree.
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