В роли охотника: деструктивный сценарий отношений

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the Problem men and women are a fundamental reservoir of all of the human world. If a little to abstract and philosophize, it is the Foundation of our universe. Male and female in essence the opposite of the beginning, able to connect, to merge in harmony, in an ecstatic rush of feelings.

Often, new contacts and developing relations with any man entail a fireworks display of new emotions, feelings, embarrassment and other as cute, and not the nuances.

Man in the image of men. The overwhelming mask.

the Man in the image of the hunter, a kind of macho, a suppressive person. He very cleverly, and even pointedly makes it clear who the "leader" in this relationship. On the one hand, on the surface it may appear for some protection for women, the desire to protect her from any worries and difficulties, he decides where they will go for a weekend or something to diversify their evening.

nevertheless, the reverse side of such communication is often uncertainty,in which the woman gets. So, a few days gap from the field of view of his lady, then up again in its own confidence of megasociety for women waiting for his call or message.

the mask is fraught with many pitfalls. And, of course, every aspect is individual and specific. Often this type of personality and relationships inherent destructive behavior:

1. Not quite free

the Man only calls when he feels the need to communicate with this woman could be a manifestation of not the most relaxing scenario. In fact, the reason may be that you use the trite and vulgar as "alternate", giving the appearance of a developing relationship.

2. Player.

one version is when man like to set their own rules in the relationship. Like a game or competition. Often in the process of communication there is the image of some "strangely familiar" the young girls of his entourage, which can be regarded as an attempt to cause jealousy. In other words, the seriousness and depth of feeling for such a scenario yet. Rather, it is appropriate to say that the "hunting" instinct, caused by your identity from the gentleman.

3. "Cynical romantic".

Such a scenario means that You in the life of his "macho" if they occupy a place, it is certainly not the first. Meeting technical. The man and then looks at his watch due to the tight "schedule of work", gym, driving courses and God knows what. In this case again the egoistic Foundation of his personality manifests itself in a negative light for it. So, overnight, it can interrupt a date, citing the important training or competition in volleyball.

4. Indecisive

Despite the brutal appearance, charisma, often a man hiding under the mask his shyness and indecision, partly even suspiciousness. Therefore, it is important to feel every more or less significant episode of relationship to develop tactics of behavior. His actions are not consistent and so you can feel like on a swing. Often emotional.

out of a destructive scenario,of course, exist. It is only necessary to understand for itself its own priorities in this relationship and try to answer the question very honestly and sincerely: "Why do I need it?" And already the basis of own views and preferences to resolve the existing contradictions in the relations. The most important criterion here is ecological purity, namely, trust and sincerity with respect to each other.

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