"What's my next stage, if it depends on the man I involuntarily fantasize how he is in bed and appreciate, would I reach them?
PS haven't had Sex in almost a year."
Today, caught in a female public, writes a middle-aged woman.
From reviews of girls:
- not seeing Anything wrong. It's "I'd tap that" feminine - correctable )))
to Find partner, hot, plump and "off".
- the Next stage is to go a couple miles over an unknown man because she caught his scent)))
Urgently buy a vibrator!
- the Next stage is apathy and a decline in interest. So we have to act now.
...laugh Laugh, meanwhile middle-aged women (35+) who are at the peak of his sexual form, often say that to find a suitable permanent sexual partner is a problem!
(even if not to perplex far-reaching queries on a full-fledged relationship, and to consider the selection of an adequate partner for a mutually satisfying regular meetings)
what difficulties do women face in this field if they choose the same tinder-like space to select a suitable lover?
the First is the most obvious - problem is that "photography" is extremely difficult to assess the actual physical attractiveness of the partner. It can be a "pretty picture", but not the fact that when I met him there any real physical attraction, and often can completely ward off the smell of his perfume (or their smell). Either will cause the rejection of his voice, manner of speaking, eat, laugh, touch.
this recipe can only be one: choose a photo of a man, whose appearance will cause the initial position, and then to check the possibility of contact in the field, that is, in real communication.
Another problem in choosing a lover in chinderah is that online a lot of men who, for whatever reason... difficult to Express their sexuality in close personal contact!
Such a man can gush hot "readiness" to passionate sex "in theory", that is, in correspondence or even in a telephone conversation, and when meeting, you can detect the place of the hero-lover of some puny clamped lawyer or insecure "colt"-it guy, not a very good idea of how to approach a woman and that is all to do with it. That is, these men, watching porn, in particular, are ready to present myself as a cool macho, but in reality do not have even a tenth of the experience about which they fantasize.
they also include quite adaptive and confident with a kind men having sexual difficulties and complexes. A common problem in men 35-40 plus is the reduced potency against the background of an unbalanced lifestyle, bad habits, workaholism and disconnected from their emotional needs.
These men sometimes do not want to deal with their problems (to rebuild the way of life, to change the attitude to yourself, to go to a psychologist to deal with emotional tategami). And the available erectile dysfunction causes fear of failure in bed. Way of compensation in such cases is often a virtual game with the woman unchained and temperamental lover.
These men often begin acquaintance with direct sexual conversation, try to inquire the woman about her sexual preference, leaning towards virtual sex, demanding sexual photos or for a great live otovarit failed to recover new friend a photo of his "dear friend".
Recipe for women here looks like this.
"Divide by three" made by man potential. And not to delay a real meeting - so more likely to immediately check the idle life: the first live contact (on neutral territory), you can get a more honest idea of sexual charisma and appeal of the alleged partner.
don't let the "rape" itself - even in the virtual space. You are not obliged hurriedly to share with the virtual interlocutor unfamiliar with the details of its intimate life, and especially not on the spot to pander to the satisfaction of his sexual fantasies. The sudden shipment to your address "dikika" (photo of male sex organ) must clearly be seen as a gross violation of your boundaries and may cause a reaction up to the instant of blocking of the interlocutor (compare with the situation in which to you on the street, for example, a man and unzips his pants - it's unlikely you'll force yourself to maintain equanimity, justifying it by the fact that you are an attractive woman, isn't it?)
in General, if a man persistently invites you into the world of "virtual flirting", making no attempt to get to know you as a person, and lead the conversation towards the real fun, you should be immediately suspicious and to make the assumption that your interlocutor is, perhaps, one of those men who have all the steam goes into the whistle.
(to be Continued).
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