Respect and appreciate someone I'm in a relationship - one of the pledges that they will be long and good.
to Appreciate those close to it, so
that it – best of all, because I chose it,
- default to believe that he always wanted the best,
- to admire his positive traits
- pay no attention to the shortcomings
- to remain silent if he made a mistake not to finish "I said," not to roll his eyes.
to be Treated with respect for the individual – that means:
- not demand but ask,
- note that he is not obliged to comply with the request,
- to thank when he did something around the house, even if he does it every day,
is to respect his opinion or decision, even if it differs from mine,
- to go forward and not to insist on,
- if he says "no" – to retreat: not to persuade, not to push, not to threaten
to let him do as he sees fit
to be able to be Autonomous, not to do everything together, if you desire different.
for Example, a husband comes home after work. The wife cooked dinner and asks him:
- You hungry?
- No.
And she quietly goes to do their business or asks him how his day was.
do Not try to persuade him to eat:
- How is it that you worked all day, did not eat, how can you not want to eat?
No need to accuse him:
- What do you mean "no?". I'm tried, cooked, kept hot, and now you gonna eat that?
to avoid such situations, it is possible to call when he's going and ask if he's hungry, and what to cook. And today's dinner could easily become tomorrow's lunch.
Just another example. Output, the husband is tired for the working week: travel, business meetings, and wants to quietly sit at home, watch a movie or droop in social.networks. But my wife, on the contrary, I want to leave and somewhere to go. Then they can spend the morning at home, then the wife will go shopping or to meet friends, and my husband will be home resting. And everybody is happy and do not need anybody to persuade, or argue, and no one to sacrifice anything. If you want to spend time together on Sunday evening to get somewhere or just to spend the weekend at home and the second – somewhere to go.
If the relationship is good – you can always negotiate. When in most cases the person inferior and not impose their own, there is a great desire to go to another meet.
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